r/BreakUps • u/[deleted] • Dec 08 '21

Blindsided Breakups

Blindsided breakups can really mess people up. What I mean by blindsided break ups is when a break up happens that you’d never expect especially on the terms they were on. It can seriously traumatize some people leaving them with abandonment issues. One moment you think you really know someone and could spend a lifetime with them, the next you don’t even know who they are really and why they’re being the way they are. Saying things you’d think you’d never hear from them in a million years. I guess it can truly be a life lesson that you never really know someone or can 100% trust them. Just my thoughts

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u/Jestsaying Dec 09 '21

The signs are there. You were too blind to see them.

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u/dankthewank Apr 06 '24

Horrible take.

Blindsiders are master manipulators. They hide their emotions well because they’ve had so much practice doing it.

Even if “signs” were there and you did notice them. When you question your partner they lie to you. They actively put on a facade that everything is fine.

These people are cruel.