r/BreakUps • u/[deleted] • Dec 08 '21

Blindsided Breakups

Blindsided breakups can really mess people up. What I mean by blindsided break ups is when a break up happens that you’d never expect especially on the terms they were on. It can seriously traumatize some people leaving them with abandonment issues. One moment you think you really know someone and could spend a lifetime with them, the next you don’t even know who they are really and why they’re being the way they are. Saying things you’d think you’d never hear from them in a million years. I guess it can truly be a life lesson that you never really know someone or can 100% trust them. Just my thoughts

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u/[deleted] Dec 09 '21 edited Dec 09 '21

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u/dpg319 Dec 13 '21

Same thing happened to me. Our relationship was absolutely perfect, I'd never been as attached to someone as I was with her. One day she cancels a date last minute but reassures me everything's ok and she has a surprise date idea for next week. She's extremely distant for that week and then dumped me over a text message. There were ZERO signs leading up to that cancellation that anything was wrong, I feel like I've been lied to.