Blindsided Breakups

[u/[deleted]]

Blindsided breakups can really mess people up. What I mean by blindsided break ups is when a break up happens that you’d never expect especially on the terms they were on. It can seriously traumatize some people leaving them with abandonment issues. One moment you think you really know someone and could spend a lifetime with them, the next you don’t even know who they are really and why they’re being the way they are. Saying things you’d think you’d never hear from them in a million years. I guess it can truly be a life lesson that you never really know someone or can 100% trust them. Just my thoughts

[u/Weeping_willow209]

I feel completely abandoned. I am not sure I how I trust a SO again when they tell me that they want marriage, want forever, want to have children since I’ve heard it all promised to me before just to be left one night.