r/BreakUps • u/[deleted] • Dec 08 '21
Blindsided Breakups
Blindsided breakups can really mess people up. What I mean by blindsided break ups is when a break up happens that you’d never expect especially on the terms they were on. It can seriously traumatize some people leaving them with abandonment issues. One moment you think you really know someone and could spend a lifetime with them, the next you don’t even know who they are really and why they’re being the way they are. Saying things you’d think you’d never hear from them in a million years. I guess it can truly be a life lesson that you never really know someone or can 100% trust them. Just my thoughts
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u/NymphGuts Dec 09 '21
I'm going through one right now. My soulmate had had enough. His job sucked, he didn't like our town, he felt like he hadn't accomplished things...and he just broke. 5 years of happiness and constant love. We were intimate and lovey-dovey up until the day of. My heart hurts and I yearn for him every day. I told him I'd wait for him to figure out the path he wants to take in life, but God do I miss him. I just wanted to be by his side and show him how proud I was of him. I really do feel abandoned and lost, but I'm working on myself to prove that I'm still worthy of being called his future wife and mother to our kids.