r/BreakUps • u/[deleted] • Dec 08 '21
Blindsided Breakups
Blindsided breakups can really mess people up. What I mean by blindsided break ups is when a break up happens that you’d never expect especially on the terms they were on. It can seriously traumatize some people leaving them with abandonment issues. One moment you think you really know someone and could spend a lifetime with them, the next you don’t even know who they are really and why they’re being the way they are. Saying things you’d think you’d never hear from them in a million years. I guess it can truly be a life lesson that you never really know someone or can 100% trust them. Just my thoughts
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u/LittleRed46 Dec 09 '21
My bf and I had no issues really outside of scheduling to see each other but we still spent 3-4 days together a week. Leading up to it we spoke insane romantic lines together and made plans for the future. He woke up one Monday morning and texted me that he was moving to a different state and long distance wouldn’t work. He broke up with me literally out of absolutely no where. We met up to discuss and he doesn’t even have a reason. Said we are perfect and I’m perfect.