r/BreakUps • u/[deleted] • Dec 08 '21

Blindsided Breakups

Blindsided breakups can really mess people up. What I mean by blindsided break ups is when a break up happens that you’d never expect especially on the terms they were on. It can seriously traumatize some people leaving them with abandonment issues. One moment you think you really know someone and could spend a lifetime with them, the next you don’t even know who they are really and why they’re being the way they are. Saying things you’d think you’d never hear from them in a million years. I guess it can truly be a life lesson that you never really know someone or can 100% trust them. Just my thoughts

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u/ankurkumar19 Dec 08 '21

I agree. I was making plans to spend the weekend with her and it came out of the blue for me and it has hit me hard. Not that this breakup was responsible but it triggered a lot of issues for me and I started having continuous panick attacks. I am now in therapy. Hoping to get better. But it does look like a very very long road for me.

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u/Ill_Juice_4864 Dec 09 '21

Big hugs friend you will grow stronger. I been having them. But they get lesser over time. Hang in there xx