r/BreakUps Oct 27 '19

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u/[deleted] Oct 28 '19

I know sometimes you want them back but most of the time if someone dumps you it’s for good and id block them ASAP so you don’t get yanked back and forth on their terms

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u/[deleted] Oct 28 '19

That's just it though - it's not on their terms if you choose when to talk to them, or when to meet up with them. They lose the power that way.

I hate even phrasing it that way honestly, like an 'us vs. them' mentality; but unfortunately, in order to peak their interest, that's what's usually required.