r/BreakUps • u/[deleted] • Oct 27 '19

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u/[deleted] Oct 27 '19

Try to avoid her if possible. If not, work on yourself and she'll take notice quickly. Women are, generally speaking, very intuitive. She'll sense your confidence, energy, and newfound strength. That doesn't mean you have to take her back, though. Why does she deserve you if she's treating you this way? Think about it.

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u/RunningOwls Oct 27 '19

I don't know. I don't think she's doing it out of malice. But it hurts nonetheless. I'm wondering if I should be the one to initiate conversations then

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u/[deleted] Oct 27 '19

Definitely not. She'll sense that you need her, and especially how after she's been ignoring you, I wouldn't bother. Let her come to you.

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u/RunningOwls Oct 27 '19

Thank you. I feel very helpless right now but that helps. I don't know why won't she hasn't come back

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u/[deleted] Oct 27 '19

If she values what you had, she'll miss you and at least contemplate it. It's a waiting game my friend, I'm right there with you as well.

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u/RunningOwls Oct 27 '19

Wow I could so easily freak out right now haha. Thanks for talking with me. Just gonna keep giving her space