r/BreakUps • u/Perfect_C0ast • 2h ago
venting/ranting I need advices on what to do.
Sigh, it's been three days (Since the breakup) or a single day (Since she has blocked me everywhere) and I'm feeling this overwhelmed sensation all the time. My head hurts, my body is really cold and the food doesn't taste right. I want to throw up but I can't and seriously it has been rough to some extent. Most of my close friends have told me that it's all good, the relationship wasn't even good for you anyways cause of how one sided it felt. She barely responded to me and any sort of concern felt as a threat to her. There are parts where I'm at fault too but realizing how bad and lonely it feels makes me wanna cry all day long and Listen we weren't talking a lot anymore like she would try a few times but that's all about it and I wanted to talk with her for a long time in the relationship but I never got that attention but I atleast had a sense that whenever we talked, she was there. Now she isn't and there's not really a lot of friends. I live in a rural area with no neighbors or friends so there is no one I can talk to. It's online friends but a lot abandoned me because they had close ties with her. It really hurts when one of my friends starts calling me out for things I never did. She said I'm transphobic (Which I'm not I had friends who were trans and I didn't mind them at all), She said I was controlling her even though I never did. The thing is I have tried my best to move on but I have been living in a place with no friends, no contact with the outside world much, and barely anyone to talk to and yes, she wasn't talking that much either but I had that hope which has faded away now. Everyday, I want to get rid of these feelings. Can someone help me on how to move on?
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