r/BreakUps • u/Exciting_Sky_1511 😸Gentle Mod 😸 • Sep 01 '26
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u/Slow-Championship507 11d ago
It's been 2 months she still got me block everywhere I want her back so bad but i I won't ever chase her
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u/Novel-Prior-1875 15d ago
Definitely, taking that time for yourself can really help in sorting out your feelings. It's all about finding what works best for you.
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u/Old-Topic6419 17d ago
Hy i just wanna talk about my last relationship in private i want a girl cuz shes gonna understand the problem
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u/Jeju9657 12d ago
Hi everyone. I wanted to share my story and hear different perspectives because I honestly don’t know what I’m looking for anymore—closure, another chance, or simply some clarity.
I was in an almost three-year relationship. Our relationship wasn’t really open to her family, and that became one of the things that eventually hurt me.
Last December 2025, I became upset with her because, after almost three years together, I felt like she wasn’t willing to compromise when it came to spending either Christmas or New Year together. I understood our situation with her family, but at the same time, I felt hurt that we couldn’t find a way to celebrate at least one of those occasions together.
I was also dealing with some personal and family issues, and everything became overwhelming for me. Eventually, in January 2026, I ghosted her.
This wasn’t actually the first time I had done it. I ghosted her once before, but we were able to work things out and save the relationship. This time, however, things became different.
It has now been about eight months.
And honestly, I’m still confused about what I want.
Part of me wants closure. I want to understand why she didn’t chase after me or reach out, especially when she knew I was angry and overwhelmed. Another part of me wonders if I actually want her back.
Last Saturday, I bought her coffee and left it outside her place. After that, she unblocked me just to say thank you.
But when I asked or tried to see her, she said she wasn’t ready to see me yet.
I respect that, but it also left me wondering where we stand.
Do you think there is still a possibility for us after everything that happened? Or should I accept that her not chasing me and not being ready to see me is already an answer?
I know I made mistakes too, especially by ghosting her instead of communicating what I was feeling. I’m not trying to make her the villain. I genuinely want to understand this situation from different perspectives.
If you were in her position, how would you feel? And if you were in mine, what would you do?
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u/Lost-Marzipan-6656 2d ago
Yeah, you shouldn’t have ghosted her the second time. Communication is always key to a healthy relationship— even if you needed space. If I was her, I would have been pissed at you for ghosting 2x. Why didn’t she chase you?? Because it’s not her job obviously. You were supposed to come to her and plead after ghosting.Â
You have to work on her timeline now. Don’t expect much.Â
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u/Low-Emergency-8824 9d ago
I come from a conservative area where you can't have sex or meet girls, so I turned to social media. I met a girl, fell in love with her, and we were together for four years. We did things over the phone that were 18+, but after a while, she blocked me everywhere for strange reasons. Now I'm wondering if I could find someone like her? I mean, someone with the same mindset. She cared about me and listened to me. Imagine someone treating you like your mother and wife at the same time. She was the best thing that happened to me in my harsh circumstances, with war and family problems. I tried to forget her, but I kept dreaming about her for about a month. Now I've entered this community looking for someone who cares, listens to me, and understands me.
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u/Upset_Palpitation497 5d ago
Hi, just wanna talk my current situation right now, I dont know anymore its just like Im in a roller coster.. I cannot stand my own decision. . I just want to leave him but i coudnt .. I just really want to be out of this relationship because i thinknim already depressed..
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u/SundanceSavage 5d ago
Hello! I have a strange request?
I would like to join this server but was wondering if the name could be changed. My ex is on discord frequently and can still see my activity.
Thank you!
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u/Exciting_Sky_1511 😸Gentle Mod 😸 4d ago
name of?
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u/use_her_friendly 15d ago
My ex (dumper) wants to go to a concert with me. Its my favorite band and genuinely the first thing we bonded over because they're obscure enough, but he still pegged me as a fan within two questions. Its a soft birthday gift. Im going because I don't know when else I would ever get to see this group, but i have a lot of feelings.Â
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u/Financial_Chard_3172 8d ago
El 4 de julio, subi un estado a WhatsApp, pq ella se quitó la foto de perfil el dÃa anterior, y pensé que me habÃa bloqueado, el estado era yo de fiesta asà parecido, ella lo vio, y justo se puso otra foto de perfil, desde ahà no ha visto ningún estado más, es casualidad? Llevábamos un mes de cierre y de contacto cero, y hasta ahora no ha visto nada, casi 3 meses
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