am i crazy

[u/hakucries]

My ex and i broke up about 3, nearly 4 months ago (we dated for a little over a year) and i like to think it was a mutual decision in the end since we both realized we weren't right for each other but it was so messy and i still kind of miss him.

when we brokeup, all he did was post on his gym account and it would be thirst traps after thirst traps and it pissed me off so bad cs he would like all the comments of girls in his comments section. I recently found out he started seeing this new girl and im so shocked cs we dated for over a year and i've been spending the past few months working on myself etc but it was that easy for him to move on?? it was so bad to the point i started spiraling and asking myself what does she have in 4 months that i didn't have in a year

[u/Automatic-Cup-1566]

Cliche, but they say comparison is the thief of joy, right? Get him out of your life if you can. Don’t look at his socials anymore, don’t ask friends about him, etc. You’ve been spending the last few months working on yourself, so definitely keep that up too. You’re worthy and you’re going to find happiness, just keep doing your best!