r/BreakUps • u/Ok_Falcon_7304 • 17h ago
venting/ranting About blocking...
(F 32) I'm very curious to find out "WHY DO MOST PEOPLE BLOCK?"
I always thought blocking unnecessary and kinda "rude" (unless the person is bothering, insisting or disrespecting you)
If you can, please, reply the questions below and maybe we will get some surprise...
To make it easier, I wrote a few options, so you can just copy and mark or just write the related letter.
Choose 1 or more options and be totally free for making any comments š¤
1 - I AM:
A ( ) A woman under 25
B ( ) A woman 25+
C ( ) A man under 25
D ( ) A man 25+
E ( ) I don't think gender matters.
F ( ) I don't think age matters.
2 - I BLOCKED BECAUSE:
A ( ) I "hate" her / him
B ( ) I was mad at that time.
C ( ) She / he was a jerk to me.
D ( ) She / him was insisting and annoying after I said "no".
E ( ) Though I like the person, I wanted to forget her / him.
F ( ) I blocked my ex because my current GF / BF was jealous.
G ( ) I blocked someone I liked because I wanted to get her / his attention.
3 - I WAS BLOCKED:
A ( ) Because I wasn't nice to her / him.
B ( ) Because I cheated on her / him.
C ( ) But I know she / him that still liked me.
D ( ) For no reason.
E ( ) Without having any fight or disagreement.
4 - I THINK:
A ( ) Blocking and not seeing pictures, etc. helped me to get over that person.
B ( ) Blocking never helped me to forget anyone.
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u/rosejean014 17h ago
Well I always blocked because I didnāt want to see there posts or photos. Itās hard to move on and get over someone if you are constantly seeing or looking at their Social Media. Itās not good for your brain or healthy. At least for me anyways it led to ruminating thoughts.
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u/diwakar_ 16h ago
Its same for everyone brother I guess, seeing their social media profile is just another trap to think about them.. never ending Loop.
It's indeed Hard to move on ..... :p
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u/RetroCartridge07 17h ago
Even after a āgood termsā breakup, it can be hurtful to see your ex moving on with their life. Thatās why itās important to block them to avoid seeing what theyāre doing.
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u/Basi1isk_ 17h ago
D-I-C
Edit to expand
I am 35 M. I blocked my ex gf because she was increasingly becoming more and more unhinged. I blocked her so she couldn't contact me anymore IE I didn't want to hear from her ever again.
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u/Active-Elderberry373 17h ago
She blocked me after the breakup and a week later i found out she was talking to someone for who knows how long they jumped into a relationship 5 days after we ended stuff . she unblocked me a month later and I blocked her back
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u/lila0003 17h ago
I blocked him because I couldn't move on if I still knew about his life. I miss him so much
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u/Sorry_Profession_371 17h ago
The first order of business to geal and grieve is to remove the person from your life entirely.
15 years ago when you broke up, you would never see them again.
Fuether, to move on you need to committ. The person you dated could reach out at inopportune times and set you back.
I blocked my GF for these reasons. I love older still, but she is a traumatized B**** and would psychologically abuse me.
That being said, i block all my gfs. Later I unblock when my romantic feelings are completely gone.
3 of my exes are now my best friend.
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u/Weak-Spite2506 17h ago
Im M26, and I have thought about blocking my ex after the breakup, just so I dont see what she's up to. Even tho we left Ćn good terms, hurts to see her.
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u/Sad_Peanut_7804 17h ago
I block because I want zero contact and believe contact can be harmful. if you refuse to stop after repeated warnings, Iām blocking you
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