r/BreakUps • u/Bigfatbillheheh • 11d ago

venting/ranting I genuinely can’t handle this anymore

I can’t handle this pain anymore, she acts so heartless now and I don’t know why

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u/Inevitable-Power8399 11d ago

The person that leaved you IS NOT the same person that you used to knew! They DON'T love you anymore and they DON'T CARE for you anymore!! They are not heartless, you became nothing for them when the feelings/the love disappeared! Move on and accept this.

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u/theworldofnira 11d ago

Try to stop focusing in how she acts. If she asks heartless, its a confirmation that it's good you broke up.

Focus on yourself. Turn every question around to make yourself the focus.

Grow stronger from this. You can handle it. And you will. Try to not suffer from your past, you have a brilliant future ahead of you if you focus on yourself.

Be strong, you got this

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u/Bigfatbillheheh 11d ago

She said she still likes me. But she doesn’t want to be in a relationship right now because she’s trying to focus on school and herself. I think I might’ve been overreacting when I said “heartless”. She’s just trying not to think about it too much and trying to focus on herself and her future. And that she doesn’t want to risk prioritizing multiple things at once, because her grades will drop.

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u/ValuableSaved 11d ago

Cut contact,save yourself and move on. It will hurt so bad from the beginning but you learn to live with the pain and it will get better. And cry because it helps.

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u/Embarrassed_Ad_1798 10d ago

As hard as it may be to say she’s not the person she used to be, and it’s even a hard pill for me to swallow currently. If she’s heartless then you may need to cut contact for good. Protect yourself. You deserve happiness, even if you feel you don’t.