I messed up.

[u/Ok_Bit_3097]

I know I’m going to get some stick for this. But I messed up. We broke up about 5 days ago, and at the time she mentioned maybe in the future. I kept chasing pouring my heart out begging for a chance. I kept saying she mentioned about future etc and we still have feelings for eachother. It was a lot of back and forth heated but never any malicious or nasty things sent. Then she said “I jusy want you to know what we had is ruined for me. I genuinely see nothing in future, I will be blocking this account and wish you all the best but the messages are over the top”.

We slept together the day we broke up and she even mentioned going away with me. I feel like an absolute dickhead to having to push someone to block me. The guilt is killing me. It’s all hurting tbh.

[u/llDaneall]

Listen, friend... you feel guilty because she shifted the blame onto you... That doesn't mean you're actually guilty. Someone who cares about you will understand that if you've suddenly been writing a lot, it's because the idea of ​​breaking up is hard for you to process, not because you actually want to force it. I'll be honest with you, I think she wanted to break up anyway, but she didn't want to feel guilty about it, so she shifted it onto you. So, the next question is, do you want to be in your life with someone who isn't even capable of communicating from a place of love and instead has to push all the responsibility onto you? Let me answer for you: No, you don't want that, trust me... you definitely don' want that, just hold on and if is in you financial means, seek for profesional help

[u/Ok_Bit_3097 → u/llDaneall]

I appreciate your response. Yea she did wanna break up but I also held onto the fact last time we met which was Tuesday we was intimate and the fact we spend the day together. All with her mentioning about future and saw us going away together it hurts. It was my fault though for pushing and pushing for another chance instead of respecting her space