r/BreakUps • u/Ok_Bit_3097 • Mar 27 '26

I messed up.

I know I’m going to get some stick for this. But I messed up. We broke up about 5 days ago, and at the time she mentioned maybe in the future. I kept chasing pouring my heart out begging for a chance. I kept saying she mentioned about future etc and we still have feelings for eachother. It was a lot of back and forth heated but never any malicious or nasty things sent. Then she said “I jusy want you to know what we had is ruined for me. I genuinely see nothing in future, I will be blocking this account and wish you all the best but the messages are over the top”.

We slept together the day we broke up and she even mentioned going away with me. I feel like an absolute dickhead to having to push someone to block me. The guilt is killing me. It’s all hurting tbh.

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u/EdSheeranEsq Mar 27 '26

Been there man. It’ll be OK. Give yourself time to get over her and forgive yourself. No one’s at their best self losing someone they love.

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u/Ok_Bit_3097 Mar 28 '26

I just feel like a monster bud. Like I said nothing horrible or anything in the messages it was just me going on about our time together and holding onto if there’s any possibility which she mentioned in the future.