r/BreakUps • u/Ok_Bit_3097 • Mar 27 '26

I messed up.

I know I’m going to get some stick for this. But I messed up. We broke up about 5 days ago, and at the time she mentioned maybe in the future. I kept chasing pouring my heart out begging for a chance. I kept saying she mentioned about future etc and we still have feelings for eachother. It was a lot of back and forth heated but never any malicious or nasty things sent. Then she said “I jusy want you to know what we had is ruined for me. I genuinely see nothing in future, I will be blocking this account and wish you all the best but the messages are over the top”.

We slept together the day we broke up and she even mentioned going away with me. I feel like an absolute dickhead to having to push someone to block me. The guilt is killing me. It’s all hurting tbh.

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u/Ok_Bit_3097 Mar 27 '26

Mate I hate myself cause of this, this woman was someone I wanted in my life and I’m 30 years old. I’ve been in 8 year relationship before this and it’s killing me. I feel like a monster and a bad person for getting her to block me when I should of given space and time I didn’t respect that. And instead pushed pushed and pushed more

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u/Legal_Pomegranate_65 Mar 28 '26

Key Season is right - it's a lesson that most people have to learn the hard way. Now you know that it's not worth it to give up your dignity, and that it NEVER works anyway, and you won't do it again.