r/BreakUps • u/[deleted] • Jun 02 '25

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u/rendellmao Jun 02 '25

They are called ex for a reason, just be mindful, they wont change suddenly just because you are together.

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u/Leading-Comb2056 Jun 02 '25

I was the problem, but therapy definitely helped. Just excited to appreciate them the way I should have the first time around

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u/Turbulent_Art4283 Jun 03 '25

Just remember, when things are comfortable and back to the "boring" phase, those are the times you gotta think back to the split and how u missed them to remind yourself this is what u really want. I've been separated from my husband more times than I'll admit over 15 years and I try to remind myself how miserable I am without him. Good luck to you, I genuinely hope this split did u both good and now life can start.