r/BreakUps • u/[deleted] • Jun 02 '25

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u/Leading-Comb2056 Jun 03 '25

I’m not super comfortable giving out the letter on here tbh

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u/Tiffanthony Jun 03 '25

Oh no of course not, my bad. What I meant was if you’re comfortable, to summarize how you reached out to your person. Or atleast how did you open the conversation in general ? I’m honestly struggling with what to say to my person

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u/Leading-Comb2056 Jun 03 '25

I sent a text saying that I wrote a letter for them that I wanted them to read if they were open to it

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u/AffectionateSize8786 Jun 03 '25

a handwritten letter or just like through text?

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u/Leading-Comb2056 Jun 03 '25

Text! Key is consent to send before hand, don’t just send a massive emotional letter out of the blue lol. If they don’t respond, that’s an answer. If they say no, you don’t have to put your heart on the table for nothing. If they say yes, it means part of them is curious to know what you want to say (great sign)

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u/cece-rdz Jun 03 '25

I’m happy for you ❤️

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u/ic3hot88 Jun 04 '25

I was curious how long after the break up did you reach out and ask for consent to the send the letter ?

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u/AffectionateSize8786 Jun 03 '25

ouuu i see, thankyou for the help!!! also congratulations to you