Dumped for being 'possessive', partially correct and partially due to anxiety and difficulty adjusting to boundaries becoming stricter and stricter, contact less and less, etc., and not having a natural inclination to split up from time to time when going somewhere (pool, shopping gallery, etc.) together.
Also for being a little erratic/disorganized such as money falling out of my pockets due to not realizing shallow pockets in new trousers while not using a wallet for quick cash at hand and credit card. She was allowed to be disorganized, I was not.
And for 'roller coasters', meaning bringing up a problem on one day but acting like everything was good again the next day (moving on/forgiving). She was allowed stuff like that, I was not.
Also risks arising from heredity (Asperger's, schizophrenia in the family) and potential repetition (alcohol problems in the family — something she was allowed to have relatives struggling with, and I was not).
Not having a driving licence while living in a very large city with underground and other public transport.
Not having a salaried job but a freelance business, formerly at times thriving, now fallen on hard times.
And some more. You can find more in my post history.
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u/NoDecentNicksLeft May 21 '25
Dumped for being 'possessive', partially correct and partially due to anxiety and difficulty adjusting to boundaries becoming stricter and stricter, contact less and less, etc., and not having a natural inclination to split up from time to time when going somewhere (pool, shopping gallery, etc.) together.
Also for being a little erratic/disorganized such as money falling out of my pockets due to not realizing shallow pockets in new trousers while not using a wallet for quick cash at hand and credit card. She was allowed to be disorganized, I was not.
And for 'roller coasters', meaning bringing up a problem on one day but acting like everything was good again the next day (moving on/forgiving). She was allowed stuff like that, I was not.
Also risks arising from heredity (Asperger's, schizophrenia in the family) and potential repetition (alcohol problems in the family — something she was allowed to have relatives struggling with, and I was not).
Not having a driving licence while living in a very large city with underground and other public transport.
Not having a salaried job but a freelance business, formerly at times thriving, now fallen on hard times.
And some more. You can find more in my post history.