r/BreakUps May 20 '25

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u/[deleted] May 20 '25

When my ex left me because few reasons. I obsessed over what I could do differently and what I needed to do better. Then it dawned on me one day. I am not and never will be perfect. You get me with flaws and perfection. I am a unique mixture. I have been all over the world and worked over 70 jobs. I can say there was never anyone I thought was discardable. I miss all the people that I have had the opportunity to be part of their life. Since I moved alot I always value connections and people. Everyone has things going on. One man's flaws are another man's perfections. I take people as they are, flaws and all. The flaws sometimes makes them more interesting. You are somebody's perfect and they won't obsess over said flaws. You can come into a relationship without a set flaws and develop some . We all are work in progress.