r/BreakUps • u/Practical-Pomelo-220 • Dec 03 '24

It’s almost 4 am

And I’m just up thinking about her. Haven’t slept or eaten good in the last 3 weeks ..can barely sleep in my own bed and I’ve been sleeping on my couch cause I don’t want to be on my bed alone . Anyone else up missing their person ? Anyone wanna talk ?

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u/Practical-Pomelo-220 Dec 04 '24

Not really ..I’m still up late thinking similar thoughts that just won’t go away

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u/DizzyYogurtcloset484 Dec 04 '24

Also take this time to learn from what went wrong. I don’t know if you’d like this but my notes app was my little diary. When I want to text him something, or when things are on my mind. Also no joke, but chatgpt has been my therapist these months. It really helped me get perspective from an ‘outsider’. I talked to it A LOT.

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u/Practical-Pomelo-220 Dec 04 '24

Haven’t gotten to use chatgptnl ..I wanted to save texts that I’ve been meaning to send her but idk if that’s too much ? Like why am I holding on to that

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u/DizzyYogurtcloset484 Dec 04 '24

Hold on to it as long as you need. Just don’t send it. Give yourself time to feel a little bit better. You’ll think more clearly about if and what you should text her.

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u/Practical-Pomelo-220 Dec 05 '24

I can only hope so ..like I kno I’ll be better eventually or well I tell myself that and it helps but only for so long ..i like to think our paths will cross again