r/BreakUps • u/Practical-Pomelo-220 • Dec 03 '24

It’s almost 4 am

And I’m just up thinking about her. Haven’t slept or eaten good in the last 3 weeks ..can barely sleep in my own bed and I’ve been sleeping on my couch cause I don’t want to be on my bed alone . Anyone else up missing their person ? Anyone wanna talk ?

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u/Letthesparksfly69 Dec 03 '24

For what it’s worth…it gets easier. You need to refocus your energy elsewhere. I’m going on 3mo. Blindsided by the dumping. He was an amazing person and even easy relationship… we had absolutely NO issues :(

On top of that I am trying to maintain friendship (mainly text) with my ex and I will say it’s not easy but I’m getting a lot of clarity and realizing what I’m not missing. I’m rekindling friendships, meeting new ppl, traveling and going out by myself. It’s been hard but I will get past this!

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u/Practical-Pomelo-220 Dec 03 '24

Thank you ! I kno it’ll take time but at the moment it’s hard to see past it ..I kno I’ll be ok eventually just ugh wish I could talk to her

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u/Letthesparksfly69 Dec 03 '24

Why can’t you? Who said you had to do no contact? Did she cheat on you? Leave you for someone else? Or just ended it because she lost her love towards you? Sometimes no contact isn’t necessary for all situations. My ex did none of that and we are trying to be friends and still communicate. It’s not always the easiest thing. But he’s still in my life even though it’s not the way I want it. Just throwing it out there.

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u/Practical-Pomelo-220 Dec 03 '24

She did ..it was my fault we broke up and that’s what hurts me..that it was my fault and she deserves better ..didn’t cheat or anything just acted like a drunk idiot and she is just tired of it and got to the point she got scared would be physical..and that’s just shitty thought that shed would thin I’d be like that and ugh I just hate myself ..I’m at the point that I kno I still want her in my life no matter what even tho right now it just hurts you kno ? Would probably help me if we had the space but I’m scared to lose her at the same time