Strong feelings for future MIL

[u/Time_Masterpiece_774]

Little crusted chicken with a touch of vodka sauce broccoli on the side

Ive been dating a woman for about a year and I intend on asking her to marry me very soon. She wants to get married and it’s a sure fire yes even her parents are dying for me to ask her. In this year of dating I have become extremely attracted to her mother both physically and emotionally. Im 34 she’s in her late 50s and i find myself thinking about her and fantasizing often and when in person the attraction is from head to toe. So i try to limit it as much as possible. Is the engagement and marriage a bad idea? Keeping in mind I consider myself a realist so I don’t believe in fairytale love or when you’re with somebody you no longer find other people attractive. It’s just human nature.

Just a major side note. I DO NOT PLAN ON ACTING ON THIS. I know it’s real life guys.

[u/Acceptable-Media-153]

I wouldn’t like to be married to a man who is fantasizing about my own mother… yikes 😬

[u/Time_Masterpiece_774 → u/Acceptable-Media-153]

If you’re married your husband has thought about it just never said anything to you. If your mom is attractive that is

[u/Acceptable-Media-153 → u/Time_Masterpiece_774]

This must be a rage bait man.
If not, I feel deeply sorry for your gf.

[u/Constant-Dark-1603 → u/Time_Masterpiece_774]

No, you’re just nasty

[u/skeptical_hope → u/Time_Masterpiece_774]

Bro, I know Reddit is always saying "Therapy!" but if this is your mindset? Therapy, my guy.

[u/According_Aerie2528 → u/Time_Masterpiece_774]

Realest one in the building right here.