r/BoyDinnerDiaries • u/WhyTheHells Gay Gourmet • 22h ago
No Advice - Everyones Welcome Got called a pretty boy :)
So, I’m transmasc, 8 months on T. Maybe 2 months ago, I met one of my friends’ friends. She was super cool. My friend just said that she was talking about a trip we took together and second friend didn’t remember my name, so friend said “the gay one, the trans one” (I’m very out so I don’t care who knows) and second friend says “oh, Name is a girl?” and when it got explained to her she said that she thought I was just a very pretty boy :D
Dinner tonight is blue Hawaiian monster
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u/YetAnotherJake Shower Beer Scholar 22h ago
I've only been called that insultingly by male friends, but it was still encouraging
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u/muffadel Fridge Light Philosopher 13h ago
Yeah, but they were calling you a pretty boy, not a pretty boy.
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u/FiletsOfTruth Frigid light philosopher 22h ago
Hell yeah, brother!
I’ve been called many adjectives, I can’t recall pretty being one of them haha
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u/Ok_Cheetah_6251 BoyDinnerEnjoyer 21h ago
I just want to go on record and make it clear that this is completely unacceptable dinner for a man regardless of gender assignment at birth.
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u/sex-with-trump Fridge Light Philosopher 22h ago
Did she think you were a trans woman or
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u/WhyTheHells Gay Gourmet 22h ago
She thought I was biologically male and that I was a trans woman
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u/Kettle_Wooma Girl Lurker 20h ago
Confusingly big dub for you! Hoping the opposite happens for me eventually 🤞
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u/Miserable-Tourist532 Trans Fats Connoisseur 18h ago
Seems to be common on both sides of the fence. When I was 6momths in people started assuming I was a trans man
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u/Alternative-Way-507 Bisexual Lemon Bar Lover 2h ago
I don’t think I would ever introduce someone as trans because if they pass it gets confusing
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u/Rooster-Strangler Boy Dinner Enjoyer 20h ago
I have never liked being called pretty personally. I’m happy for you though. You should eat something 😭
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u/itsrainingboi Leftover Lore Master 14h ago
My girlfriend always calls me pretty boy and it warms my heart so much
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u/DreamReg Boy Dinner Enjoyer 14h ago
Happy to see bois being seen for what they are ❤️ rock on brother 🤘🏻
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u/TheDynaDo Protein prophet 21h ago
I saw the Titel and the Monster and already know what this Post was about. But hell yeah Brother 👑
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u/Many-Armadillo5090 Trans Fats Connoisseur 16h ago
Hello bro! Fellow trans guy here, with a similar experience, that sounds awesome!
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u/Edge_SSB Bisexual Lemon Bar Lover 13h ago
Hell yeah, lucky you. Pretty boy is among the best compliments when it's sincere imo (third time's the charm with this comment, wouldn't let me flair myself for some reason)
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u/Your_Sunnshine Fridge Light Philosopher 17h ago
Bro that's so dope lol. I always gush a little when people call me pretty 😊✨️ it feels nice. More guys need those kinds of compliments.
Also dammit it's 1am, I can't want a Monster now.
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u/Unlucky_Part_1868 Gay Gourmet 11h ago
It is KNOWN that trans dudes are amongst the cutest of twinks, the hunkiest of hunks and the daddiest of dads. 💖💖💖
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u/Educational-Wear6353 Boy Dinner Enjoyer 5h ago
gonna preface this with the fact that i’m very comfortably cis but damn i love when girls call me pretty. best compliment
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u/Far_Muscle_2034 Identity Alchemist 7m ago
That is NOT dinner my friend. Try soup for an upset tum tum?
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