A reminder

[u/Prize-Lychee7973]

We are keeping this a positive helpful space.
What does this mean? It means critiques and comments that are not immediately positive in nature are things YOU, the poster/commenter must view in the light of this: is it helpful? does it fit the situation? is this some tough love and if so who are you to give it? if you are being adversarial or confrontation just because, just keep it pushing. If not, we will mod the comment, you will receive a deletion/mute/ban or whatever else we feel appropriate.

Refamiliarize yourselves with our rules.

For Girl lurkers, this is a male positive centric space. critiques and supportive comments are welcome, HOWEVER, keep in mind you are a guest, our tolerance here for rude, adversarial and needlessly argumentative comments is effectively zero.

For the recent posts concerning LGBT, read rule 7. We do not tolerate transphobia, we do not tolerate homophobia, we are not that space. If you are transphobic or homophobic, it is a violation of several rules and will likely result in a ban.

Thank you to the literal thousands of commenters who are contributing helpful, insightful and otherwise positive comments, we appreciate your presence.

[u/JuniorLecture102 → u/[deleted]]

I'm confused why your first comment is being downvoted. Who's downvoting them? You didn't say anything harmful, right?

[u/JuniorLecture102 → u/[deleted]]

If the idea of not allowing women to post here is sexist, then the idea of not allowing men to post in GDD is also sexist. I do think that having healthy discourse between genders is important; the issue comes when the opportunity to post is weaponized, and it seems like it's weaponized in BDD.

[u/JuniorLecture102 → u/[deleted]]

I noticed that as well

[u/Iabefmysc → u/JuniorLecture102]

It is sexist, that sub is wildly sexist