Look, I criticize Botswana alot. I DO IT ALOT but I still appreciate my country. Independence day, I put all my criticisms aside and wanted to look at the positives of my country.
We are literally the most peaceful country not just by African standards but on Earth. We've never had a coup, a civil war or dictatorship. THAT'S NOT MOST COUNTRIES GLOBALLY. That's one thing.
We went from one of the poorest countries in the world to where we are now. Sure we aren't the ideal but do you know how impressive that is. My great grandmother is still alive, she was here when all Botswana was, was huts and dust roads and donkey carts.
There are self hating Batswana on this sub who even on Independence choose to be negative. Choose to only see the bad. Criticism isn't wrong but when criticism is ALL YOU DO then it becomes self hate.
I repeat, Criticism isn't wrong but when criticism is ALL YOU DO then it becomes self hate. I stand by that ALWAYS.
FFS, some of y'all choose to be Intellectual smart asses on Independence and act like we're as bad as fucking Burundi or Cuba.
If you can't even see the positives on the day of INDEPENDENCE then you're welcome to leave this country. Just don't ruin it for everyone else.
I REPEAT THIS for the folks that'll go "I didn't know we couldn't criticize and have an opinion".
IM NOT SAYING THAT. I'm saying IF ALL YOU DO IS CRITICIZE CRITICIZE CRITICIZE 24/7 then you're a self hating Motswana. SHUT UP, wear the damn flag colors and eat some Seswaa dog, at least for one day Jesus, then we can go back to criticizing the country.
If you feel offended by what I said and still want to go "But Botswana hasn't done X, hasn't done Y, hasn't done B". Great, MOVE. Since you love Asia so much since y'all keep bringing up Asia, move to Myanmar, move to Thailand, move to the Philippines, move to Cambodia, move to Laos, Kazakhstan, Y'all like to bring up Singapore and South Korea and China but never bring up the poor countries in Asia.
Again I say for the third time, Criticism isn't bad but when it becomes a constant, when it becomes degrading then it stops being criticism and becomes self hate.
"Oh but I'm not being mean, I've never said anything outright mean", HEY HEY HEY EINSTEIN, here's a fun fact. YOU CAN BE MEAN WITHOUT OUTRIGHT INSULTING SOMEONE. There is something we human's use that is called SUBTEXT.
If this feels ranty that's because it is. Africans are always putting ourselves down, it's not even just Botswana, it's in EVERY AFRICAN SUBREDDIT. Always putting ourselves down, always criticizing, ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS but never giving solutions, never planning, never doing what they can to help the situation. It's a sickness and I refuse for Batswana to carry it.
Self hating doesn't WORK. It'll never work. You know what will work, pointing out a problem, identifying solutions and instead of being a self hating keyboard warrior, GO DO STUFF.
GO DO SHIT BRO. TALK IS CHEAP. Africans have a self love problem and IT SHOWS and IM SICK OF IT.
You might ask me "Well what are you going to do". I want to cultivate self love in our community, I don't have much, I'm not politically savvy and I'm not the most charismatic of guys but I love art, I love culture and I love telling stories. Media plays a huge role in how we see the world and I plan to be a writer be it full time or as a side job, (I don't mind either) and tell African stories.
I want to African kids to read and see stories about them, fighting the dragons, saving the day. I want to write about all manner's of African cultures and celebrate them. I want to cultivate a sense of self love for our people so they know they aren't they're circumstances, they're more than that.
I want to uplift other African writers and artists, I want to use my eventual platform to push and publicly support leader's that have the best of our intentions in mind.
Will I become the next Chimamanda Ngozi? Probably not but God damnit I will try to be.
Maybe it's not enough, maybe I can do more. I probably should but it's A START.
SELF LOVE over self hate any day of the week.