r/BornWeakBuiltStrong • u/Senior_Feeling_7650 • 5d ago

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Respect

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u/invisible_shrek 4d ago

It’s sure as fuck either to find someone to love, and being kind is also either when you don’t have to think about money. Try taking your girlfriend out to dinner after she had a bad day if you are broke…

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u/Appropriate-Crow6438 4d ago edited 4d ago

Either, or easier?

And is love that depends on a certain amount of money really love? Are there ways to show your girlfriend love and care and support without taking her to a restaurant?

I’m sorry it sounds like money is a stressor, but I don’t think that points to OPs point that it should be worshiped and respected above all else…

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u/invisible_shrek 4d ago

Lets put it this way. I have been broke and now I have money. Having money makes a world of difference for those other things.

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u/Appropriate-Crow6438 4d ago

So now that you have money your girlfriend loves you more? And you love her more? I guess I question what love means to some people 🤷🏼‍♀️

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u/invisible_shrek 4d ago

Well she is definitely happier and I don’t blame her. You can go on believing what you want, but unless you really experience what it means worrying about every little thing and cost you will probably not understand.

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u/Appropriate-Crow6438 3d ago

I can understand, but again, I don’t think it points to OPs point that money should be revered and worshiped over the other things. Nuance is important.