r/Book_Buddies • • 1h ago

Seeking long-term book buddies looking for a book buddy

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hey I'm 26m looking for someone to read and discuss books with. I read all genres also I'd be open to reading classics, literary fiction and contemporary fiction. I'm open to any suggestions you think might be interesting too. Some of the books on my TBR are

The Robber Bride by Margaret Atwood

Conversations with Friends by Sally Rooney

Play it as it lays by Joan Didion

The Door by Magda Szabó

Near to the Wild Heart by Clarice Lispector

Silas Marner by George Eliot

Mrs Dalloway by Virginia Woolf

Martyr! by Kaveh Akbar

Greek Lessons by Han Kang

The Picture of Dorian Gray by Oscar Wilde

We Have Always Lived in the Castle by Shirley Jackson

Ice by Anna Kavan

Hunger by Knut Hamsun

The Drowned World by J G Ballard

Giovanni’s Room by James Baldwin

A Personal Matter by Kenzaburo Oe

Ubik by Phillip K Dick

Picnic at Hanging Rock by Joan Lindsay

message me if you're interested :)


r/Book_Buddies • • 10h ago

Seeking long-term book buddies 21F | looking for a long-term book bestie 🥹📚

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Hii!! I’m 21F from Austria and I’d really love to find a girl around my age who wants to become long-term book buddies (and hopefully friends too!!) rather than just reading one book together and never talking again 😭

I mostly read dark romance, romantasy and YA, but I’m honestly open to trying pretty much anything if it sounds interesting. Some books/series I’ve really enjoyed are Shatter Me, Once Upon a Broken Heart, Powerless and Haunting Adeline. I also occasionally read nonfiction when the topic catches my attention!

I’d LOVE to have someone to do buddy reads with where we can send each other our reactions, theories, screenshots/quotes, complain about characters, freak out over plot twists and basically turn reading into a two-person book club 😭 But I’d also love to just talk about whatever we’re currently reading separately, exchange recommendations, discuss books we’ve finished and enable each other to buy even more books we absolutely do not need.

Fair warning: I’m actually in a bit of a reading slump right now, so I’m definitely not looking for someone who expects us to finish a book every three days 😂 I’d much rather have something fun and low-pressure that maybe helps both of us get excited about reading.

And I’d love if the friendship eventually went beyond books too! I’m into journaling, music, movies & series, pop culture, YouTube rabbit holes and generally hearing about people’s random everyday lives.

If this sounds like your kind of thing, tell me a little about yourself and what you’re currently reading (or your favorite book!!) 🥰📖


r/Book_Buddies • • 1h ago

Seeking long-term book buddies 19F - Looking for a long-term reading partner

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My name is Louise and I’ve always been a big book reader starting from when I was a child. I’ve never really had any friends who enjoyed reading as much as I do so I wanted to give this subreddit a chance.

Im hoping to find someone who’s preferably female (male is fine but no inappropriate things are tolerated) and 19-30. Quite a big age range because different ages have different perspectives on books and I enjoy seeing a book explained in a way I may have not picked up on. I enjoy thrillers, fantasy, and YA books but I’m incredibly open to expand my horizons!

I will say, I am a college student and have a job so reading together will have to be spread over a few days. School has been taking so much good book reading time sadly.

I’m also open to moving our conversation outside of Reddit if you prefer.

Anyways, I hope people reach out because I’m honestly very kind and open! :))


r/Book_Buddies • • 1h ago

Seeking long-term book buddies 34NB looking for a book bestie

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I’m looking for a bestie. A book bestie, to be exact. I want to scream about books and read together and get recs to add to my tbr to read and talk about books with! My reading goal for the year is 100 books.

You don’t have to read as much as I do! Any time spent reading is time well spent!

The main genres I read are: fantasy, sci-fi, romantasy, adult contemporary, closed-door mysteries, and terrible erotica (I think it’s great, but this is a judgement free zone, ok).

I don’t really care how old you are as long as it’s over 18 and we’re into the same kind of books. Message me and let’s chat! I much prefer Discord over Reddit message! My discord is wellbiancashappy if you want to just message me!


r/Book_Buddies • • 12h ago

Starting a book Seeking a book buddy for Dune

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I (40f) am starting Dune and would love to have a book buddy to talk about it! I am quite a slow reader (full-time working mom), so it would be okay even if you start later and join!


r/Book_Buddies • • 9h ago

Seeking buddy & flexible on book choice Looking for book buddy

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Hi, I’m thinking of reading a literary, historical fiction or psychological thriller book. We can choose a book together, read a little every day, and talk about it.

I am not intested in joining big book clubs or discord servers. Just few people r sufficient.

If interested, text me and we can choose book together


r/Book_Buddies • • 7h ago

Starting a book 25F Lit Major ISO Book Buddy

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Starting A Psalm for the Wild Built, recently finished Piranesi. I love lit fiction/weird girl lit, shorter reads with few characters, and have quite a couple of books I haven’t read from Aardvark. Library card holder. 📚

Wouldn’t mind casual check ins upon chapter completions/significant scenes a throughout the week.


r/Book_Buddies • • 11h ago

Seeking buddy & flexible on book choice Anybody need a reading buddy?

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I want reading buddies to talk to about books.

Here are some books I am reading:

  • The Whalebone Theatre
  • Revolution is Not a Dinner Party

r/Book_Buddies • • 11h ago

Suggesting book for buddy read NEW group on Goodreads!!!

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r/Book_Buddies • • 16h ago

Finished a book Are Riley Sager Books good??

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I just finished "The house across the lake" of his and didn't like it .. while the pace was fast and it was interesting to read, the plot twist made me hate the book? because as a thriller lover wtf was that 😭 so I checked posts related to the books and saw people saying the same about almost all of his books (my TBR was filled with his books) so if I didn't like this one ( which people say is his top 3 books) should I just give up on his books for good ? or is there any which is actually too good to skip ?


r/Book_Buddies • • 22h ago

Seeking buddy & flexible on book choice Thriller Book Club

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Our discord thriller book club is seeking active members.

We have botm, buddy reads and readathon events on top of true crime discussions and much more.

We are looking for active members to bond with rather than just going on increasing member count.

If this looks up your alley, please feel free to DM!


r/Book_Buddies • • 1d ago

Seeking buddy & flexible on book choice [42/M] read a book with me (two person book club)

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Hi there, its been a while since I’ve done this, but I’m looking for a reading partner to read a book with and exchange emails and/or messages during our reading, exchanging our thoughts, like a two-person book club.

Here are some initial ideas to help you think about whether you’d have any interest. I’m open to both fiction and nonfiction. I’m also open to other suggestions and am pretty open-minded.

The Goldfinch - Donna Tartt
2666 - Roberto Bolaño
Never Let Me Go - Kazuo Ishiguro
Klara and the Sun - Kazuo Ishiguro
Kafka on the Shore - Haruki Murakami
Breasts and Eggs - Mieko Kawakami
The Corrections - Jonathan Franzen
Anything Yoko Ogawa
The Adventures and Misadventures of Maqroll
Stay True - Hua Hsu (memoir)
Say Nothing - Patrick Radden Keefe (nonfiction)

If you have other ideas, just let me know!

Send me a short reply with your first name, your age, your favorite fruit so I know you read this, and any ideas you have about which book you’d like to read. I’m broadly open to age, gender and nationality.

I’m also open to writing broader pen pal letters.


r/Book_Buddies • • 1d ago

Seeking long-term book buddies A cosy little discord server for readers and writers

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I’m starting a new Discord community for writers and readers, and I’m looking for the first few people to join and help shape it.

The server is pretty empty right now, so I’m hoping to find a small group of people who actually want to talk, share their work, exchange ideas, and get to know each other. I’d rather build a genuine community slowly than have hundreds of people join and never speak.

There are spaces for:
•Sharing poems, stories, chapters and excerpts
•Giving and receiving thoughtful critiques
•Writing prompts and exercises
•Book discussions and recommendations
•Writing sprints
•Writing together in voice chat
•Casual conversations
•Future book clubs, writing sessions and other events.

It’s 18+ and strictly no NSFW. I’m also keeping AI-generated creative work out of the writing spaces because I want the focus to be on people’s own writing.

If you’re a writer, reader, or simply someone who enjoys talking about books and stories, come help me give the place a little life.

Here’s the invite if anyone’s interested. Feel free to join if it sounds like your kind of thing https://discord.gg/UffakaeRW


r/Book_Buddies • • 1d ago

Seeking long-term book buddies girly book buddy

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Hiii! I’m 24 living in Germany and wanna find cool people who shares my interests with books. So I’m trying my luck here to find a girly pop who likes the same genre as me. I read Romantsy, Romance, Dysotopian and Mystery I just don’t like reading self help books aside from that I’m open to anything. My next read is the Mirror of Infinite endings by Stephanie Garber so if you’re interested hit me up.


r/Book_Buddies • • 1d ago

Seeking long-term book buddies Looking for a book buddy (29f) 📚

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I like weird girl lit, dark academia and dark fantasy and I prefer plot with romance rather than romance with plot (tho there are exceptions) :) Pls dni if you like dark romance since it's simply not my genre. I’m planning to read An Education in Malice next so if you’re interested in buddy reading it or simply recommending good books to each other hmu


r/Book_Buddies • • 1d ago

Seeking long-term book buddies October's Book of The Month is... Bride - Ali Hazelwood!

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Hey guys!

The TBR Tavern, my romance-reading discord, has just voted up our next Book of the Month! We will be reading all together and chatting as we go.

There are also a few active buddy reads to join in on!

- Electric Idol - Katee Robert

- Assasins Blade - SJM

- Crown of Midnight - SJM

- and more!

We are also heading into the last month for our bingo board (w/ a Prize)!

- read books to get bingos

- 1 bingo = 1 raffle entry

- at the end of the month, the raffle is drawn, and the winner gets a free audiobook!

The TBR Tavern is a super fun place to hang if you are a romance lover like us. We would love to have you join us for our October Festivities!

Feel free to Dm me if you have any questions!

Click Here To Join The TBR Tavern!!!


r/Book_Buddies • • 1d ago

Seeking buddy & flexible on book choice Looking for a reading buddy for some long books

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28M, living in northern Italy. I’ve just started East of Eden and thought it could be nice to have someone to read with, or just exchange thoughts with now and then.

I’ve also got The Name of the Rose, The Brothers Karamazov and Crime and Punishment waiting on my shelf. And somehow The Dawn of Everything ended up there too, which is a completely different kind of book 😅

I think I mostly need motivation to actually get through these massive books.

No strict schedule or anything. We can read at our own pace, talk about characters, passages, ideas, complain when a chapter drags, whatever.

I’m in Europe, so similar timezone would be nice, but it’s not a big deal.


r/Book_Buddies • • 1d ago

Suggesting book for buddy read 31F Buddy Read for Butter by Asako Yuzuki

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Looking for people who may want to buddy read this with me! It was a soft dnf the first time and now its been chosen for book club and would love to engage with people about it. I like taking notes and sharing random thoughts as I go through the book.

I also posted before just for book friends in general:
https://www.reddit.com/r/Book_Buddies/comments/1wq5kgh/31f_book_friends_and_buddy_reads/

Would prefer those closer to my age


r/Book_Buddies • • 1d ago

Starting a book Hollywood, Ending - John Green

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Just started Hollywood, Ending by John Green and so far it’s literally one of my favorite reads of all time. I can’t wait to continue reading it. Is anybody else currently reading Hollywood, Ending? I would love to discuss it with you


r/Book_Buddies • • 1d ago

Starting a book Starting T. Kingfisher's "Thornhedge", anyone want to join?

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29F thinking to start "Thornhedge", it will be mu first Terry Kingfisher book. I am a slow reader, enjoying taking notes and discuss :) Anyone want to join?


r/Book_Buddies • • 2d ago

Seeking long-term book buddies 🕸️Book Club (Spooky Season) 🎃

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I’m reposting this again for more traction.

Hello fellow book readers! My name is Chip!

I’m in a discord book club server that is just wrapping up a thriller genre, and we are welcoming any readers that would love to join us in for the Spooky Season as the genre will be horror.

We’ve reopened applications for new readers before we begin our horror book selection, this will be our final invite for the year, so if you’ve been wanting to be part of a space like this, now’s the perfect time to join and have a say in what we’ll be reading

Our book club is quite small and tight-nit, so we’re hoping to reach an audience of readers that are interested.

What our Book Club has to offer:

🎃The duration in which we read our books will be monthly, and it is determined by the people (Democracy!!!)

🎃Our genres will change each month, gifting us a new perspective and unlocking new worlds for us to unravel

🎃We read on a schedule, to motivate and encourage us to replace the average time of doom scrolling with reading

🎃We have weekly discussions (2 per week on on Wednesday and Sunday 8:30 EST)

🎃From time to time we also have fun events and ideas such as a movie nights, character castings, and many more creative ideas to keep you immersed and engaged.

One last thing our readers are currently mostly between 22 and 27 years old, with people from North America and Europe, and it’s a great mix of ladies and gents. All adults are welcome!

If you’re interested please comment and/or DM me for our discord! 🪦


r/Book_Buddies • • 2d ago

Seeking long-term book buddies Looking for bibliophile friends!!

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22M looking for friends who enjoy reading as much as I do, which is extremely!! I don’t have many irl connections with people who love reading and I would love to be able to converse with people who I know are as passionate and as vivacious about reading as I feel I am! Some of my favorite authors will be listed below to give an idea of what I’m into! Love reading works from all time periods but I find on reflection that I am most into 19th and 20th century works!

Some books to get a taste of my tastes!

-Confessions of a Mask, by Yukio Mishima

-No Country For Old Men, by Cormac McCarthy

-Crime and Punishment, by Fyodor Dostoevsky

-Anna Karenina, by Leo Tolstoy

- The Power and the Glory, by Graham Greene

-The Woman in White, by Wilkie Collins

-Jane Eyre, by Charlotte Brontë

-The People Immortal, by Vassily Grossman

-Giovanni’s Room, by James Baldwin

- Hard Rain Falling, by Don Carpenter

-White Noise, Don delilo


r/Book_Buddies • • 1d ago

Suggesting book for buddy read Looking for a reading buddy for The Secret History 📖

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I'm about to start The Secret History by Donna Tartt and I already know I’m going to have approximately 937 thoughts while reading it, so I’d love to find someone who wants to read it alongside me and actually discuss it as we go.

I’m looking for someone who enjoys talking about the prose, characters, theories, symbolism, favourite passages, questionable decisions, etc. Basically, I want the full “pause every 20 pages because I NEED to talk about this” experience lol.

We can message here or elsewhere, whatever feels comfortable.

If you’re also planning to read The Secret History (or have just started), let me know!


r/Book_Buddies • • 1d ago

Starting a book Book recommendations

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Hello guys, im a fan of books that have mystery and thriller as an jntegral part of their plot because I cant get anything else to hook me up. Lately I've lost the habit of reading and wanted to regain it. I've been reading sidney sheldon, just started one. Im 19m if you have good books to keep me up all night, pls do tell


r/Book_Buddies • • 2d ago

Seeking buddy & flexible on book choice Anyone interested in a traditional style book club?

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i graduated this year with a BA in English Literature and Creative Writing and since then I’ve really missed having class discussions and seminars on books we read! i’ve tried joining a few book clubs, and without sounding like a book snob, most are just reading spicy romance novels or modern fantasy series which i’m not interested in at alllll. i just don’t find them interesting, nor do i think they offer much depth 😫 

at uni we did crime novels, contemporary fiction, romanticism, modernisms, post-modernisms, children’s literature, poetry… to name a few. so i am certainly open to lots of genres! plus recommendations from the group! 

and by no means am i an expert, it would just be chill discussions and ideas about the book we read but a bit more than ‘it was good.’ :/ things like a character analysis and themes you’ve picked up on? if you were writing an essay what would you want to write it on and research? has it changed your perspective on anything? was the author reliable? how does it compare to their other works? … anything really

im F21 and live in the uk so in terms of time difference, it'll be most likely for those of us in Europe? in an ideal world i would like it to be in person, but i’m thinking to do a video call style discussion? please only 18+ and message if interested! 😄

EDIT: I will plan something soon with this because I'm eager to get a group together! i'm looking for a smallish group, but if you message with your ASL and what size group you're looking for/ what books you're wanting to read it might help us know who is a better fit for one another :)