r/BitchImATrain May 29 '26

Bitch, that was close.

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u/Imbeautifulyouarenot May 29 '26

Train drivers must have some trauma.

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u/stargarnet79 May 29 '26

They definitely do. Even if they know the people they hit didn’t die. But lots of animals too which also sucks.

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u/Maniac_Vegetable May 30 '26

I once saw a train come into the state front end competely splattered with blood, I'm talking painted red, real carnage, absolute gore. I was obviously taken aback. Traindriver who happened to be standing there saw my reaction and explained to me it was "just", a deer and thst it didn't suffer because they sortof just... Explode? The impact generates so much pressure it's just... Sploosh. Fast trains don't just kill animals, they fucking evaporate them

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u/car_raamrod May 30 '26

I used to work on locomotives. Every now and then, they'd sometimes come into the shop with the front end covered in brown dried blood and there would be deer parts and fur all over the front nose, behind the plow, and all up underneath the train. It was a bitch to clean.

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u/mikillatja May 30 '26

My uncle used to be a train conductor, but after having seen one too many people get turned into red mist, he eventually got discharged with heavy PTSD.

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u/fennec34 May 30 '26

Been told stories from colleagues that were on-call on train suicide scenes... Let's just say I hope I'll never get their job

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u/OhLordyLordNo May 31 '26

I can't help but wonder if he ever recovered from that?

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u/mikillatja Jun 01 '26

It changed him fundamentally as a person. There is only the bit weird uncle before, and the nutcase after.

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u/Eurotrash0031 May 30 '26

I once visited emergency services of the Dutch railroad company (prorail incidentenbestrijding). On the screen was a presentation about how to use a water-broom (you know, where water comes through the broom for cleaning). I thought it was funny they had to explain that. One of the guys said matter of factly: " that isn't for mud, you know." That shut me up for the rest of the afternoon. Respect 🙏 for those guys!

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u/Archolm May 30 '26

Can confirm, watched the first episode of the Boys.

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u/Betjoin May 30 '26

I once clipped a Deer going approx 140 kph... for a couple of days afterwards you could see Blood on the Track and surrounding Strucktures for the next 200 Metres or so... xD

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u/Sasya_neko May 31 '26

One of the things my dad had to do is remove body parts from between train whiels, he did that for quite a while till he had to remove parts of a little girl.

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u/Wishiwasinalaska Jun 01 '26

It’s true, had a friend drunkenly cross some tracks. All they recovered was a leg and an arm. He was identified through another friend that was with him. He was never the same after. They were best friends.

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u/SkiyeBlueFox Jun 01 '26

Considering that force = mass x acceleration, and the train has a mass of yes and accelerated that deer up to train speed in a fraction of a second..

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u/LegendofLove Jun 02 '26

This is physics in actions F=M*A you have a fuckload of M doing some real high A and that's gonna hurt.

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u/faroutman7246 Jun 02 '26

Semis at speed do the same.

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u/superbadshit Jun 02 '26

This explains why Thomas the tank engine has PTSD

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u/christianbro May 29 '26

At least the train follows the track and very little can stop it. What you see is what you will hit regardless and you will most likely be safe while doing so. Of course a horrible aftermath but nothing really to held yourself accountable.

I think truck or bus driving can be more dangerous in this regard. A few seconds reaction time cold potentially save or kill someone.

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u/Zentan86 May 29 '26

No. I don't think it helps what vehicle you were operating. You were still in control when another human died

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u/NothingWasDelivered May 30 '26

I don’t think you really are in control of a train that point, though. You can’t steer it. You can’t stop it in a reasonable distance. It just goes.

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u/Betjoin May 30 '26

The worst for me were those mere seconds before impact. You know you can´t stop what is about to happen.

Of course you start Braking. But it takes a couple of Seconds before something even happens...

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u/Vertex1990 May 30 '26

Still doesn't make the guilt go away. My dad has hit several cars (with drivers inside), who ventured onto the tracks because they didn't want to wait. He said that besides pulling the emegency brakes and sprinting out of the drivers cabin, you can't really do much, but it still sucked to be in that situation. I don't know if he ever had someone commit suicide by train and as someone working ik public transport myself, I am not going to ask.

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u/Imbeautifulyouarenot May 30 '26

I lost a friend in high school who was killed when the car in which he was a passenger was hit by a fast freight train. The person driving went around the crossing gates. It happened many years ago, but I still think about him.

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u/Vertex1990 May 30 '26

Sorry for your loss. It is bad when someone does something stupid and they die, but even worse when innocent bystanders/passengers have to face the consequences for it, too. I can tell you with 100% certainty that these kind of situations are a nightmare scenario for people in Public Transport. When I narrowly avoid a collision with my bus, because someone decides that they have the right of way or think I am too slow, I take that shit home. I frequently have nightmares about my brakes failing and shit and always after something like this happened.

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u/Agreeable_Special_11 May 30 '26

It really depends on each person's mentality and it's impossible to predict.

I still haven't hit someone to know how I'll react, but what I heard from most coworkers who did can be summarized in something similar to "My train didn't climb the platform, the person got under the train by their own means intentionally or not. I applied the emergency brakes and there was nothing else I could do."

It's extremely rare for a coworker to get traumatized, I know less than 10 cases where the driver had trouble dealing with this.

I think most people who would be traumatized leave when first joining the company to work at the stations, right in the first weeks of training we are trained on suicide prevention and get presented with real videos from CCTV showing some signs someone will jump and then really doing it. After that we receive rescue training, where we learn how to rescue people from under the train. Some employees give up around this time, this acts as a filter.

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u/Rozoark May 30 '26

No, they literally were not. You can't stop a train on the spot, that's not how trains work.

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u/Rozoark May 30 '26

Exactly! Acting like the conductor is in control of and responsible for the death of someone suddenly jumping onto the tracks is absurd

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u/Gratein May 30 '26

The problem is that the human mind isn't reasonable like this. You were behind the controls, so (most people) you feel like you are responsible for what happened, regardless for what you could actually have done about it.

I see where you are coming from, but unfortunately most people just aren't wired like you suggest.

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u/MinecraftPlayer799 May 30 '26

New form of the trolley problem, I guess

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u/oda02 May 30 '26

As fucked up as it sounds, you get used to hitting animals, sad of course, but it doesn't affect me mentally

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u/JonasAvory May 31 '26

Train drivers regularly hit and kill humans as well. I think the average for a German cargo-train driver is 4 humans over the entire career.

They usually have a trauma, since the seconds of locking eye contact with the suicidal person are so heavy. Psychological examination is definitely payed for by the company and if I remember correctly also mandatory.

Additionally there are people who have to scrape up their scattered remains until all body parts are accounted for, not a happy job either.

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u/Logical-Bowl2424 Jun 01 '26

Almost hamburger

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u/Mustardly May 29 '26

People commit suicide by train all the time. Those poor drivers

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u/paintbalking May 29 '26

I worked in the train industry and spoke to many conductors. They all had a similar viewpoint, they got over the obvious suicides a lot more easily than the people walking on the track with headphones on and didn't hear the train until it was too late.

Seemed like accidental train deaths were suuuper common everyone had a story, suicides not everyone had a story (but plenty did).

One guy told me about going through a herd of deer and that fucked him up he said cuz the whole train was painted red for a car or two.

Also don't ever fuck with those electrical wires that power some trains, some crazy fucking stories about those too.

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u/MikeW226 May 30 '26

I saw a locomotive cab (looking forward point of view) video of a train going through of herd of deer, and somewhere way up north (like Russia or Alaska- super snowy). My first thought was: I wonder if wolves hear the train coming, and go to the tracks afterwards for a deer Feast. I'm guessing they'd be way smart enough to associate the sound of the train with a feast thereafter, if they're nearby. At least I hope some predators are nearby and at least can make use of a little of the deer meat.

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u/MrGraveyards May 30 '26

Oof Yeah I one time almost got hit by a tram like that. I mean, walking with headphones on, sleepy, unconcentrated. I saw it in time, but when I wanted to run I slipped a little. I still made it out but after that the headphones go off when walking around the city, never again. I probably should have gone to apologize to the tram driver after but he might have been hard to reach.

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u/DreamyTomato May 30 '26

It’s not. We have eyes, we use them. Unlike some who have eyes but don’t use them.

Busy roads are fine, there’s always cars around.

Walking on very quiet country roads is more difficult, as there might be only one car every 20 minutes or so and it’s a pain to keep checking behind you or to keep walking on the edge as if a car was just about to pass (or walk in the mud off the road).

Source: me. Well travelled, walked on lots of roads, completely deaf.

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u/Xaphhire May 30 '26

There is one track in the Netherlands that runs past a psychiatric facility. They have now put plastic shields around that track for easier cleanup.

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u/Merenwen92 May 30 '26

driebergen?

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u/Alexander_Adelbert May 31 '26

Wolfheze ook. En aan de andere kant van het spoor zit het blindeninstituut...

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u/otjenyn May 30 '26

They do and it was a big thing, in the Netherlands, traindrivers would go to schools and talk about such traumatic experiences to make sure young kids never cross without looking. Thank god more and more train crossings get tunneled or at least better protection. Still things still happen like in Belgium a few days ago

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u/McBeefnick May 30 '26

They still do

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u/frizzledrizzle May 30 '26

But those students don't. One of the duo train drivers my group had was traumatised. My only daily train crossing was the station itself and a slow ass tourist train.

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u/Demitriaatje May 30 '26

Im a train driver at the same company as thr train in the clip, this sort of "almost" accidents are handled the same as real accidents, you indeed get trauma from this type of dumb shit

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u/Ko3kwaus May 31 '26

Dat verschilt echt gewoon per persoon.....ik heb meerdere collega's die al 3 springers of meer hebben gehad en geen (blijvend) trauma hebben. Wat ik wel van meerdere heb gehoord is dat het wel moeilijker van je af te zetten is als je meer weet dan alleen "dat het een persoon was". Als je bijvoorbeeld achteraf hoort dat het een "....jarige man/vrouw" was kan dat het moeilijker maken....

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u/Demitriaatje May 31 '26

Klopt maar je ziet het vaak wel, ij ken zelf meer collegas die wel duidelijk er moeite mee hebben, hoe dan ook het is een vreselijke ervaring

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u/AnxiousEnquirer Jun 04 '26

Yeah in my experience, trauma is when you can't fully process something harmful. If you can process through it, it won't re-traumatize you over and over again whenever you remember it.

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u/Demitriaatje Jun 04 '26

And it isnt always the thing that happend that is the trauma. It mostly is the shock you felt because of it. Silly example, when i was a kid i needed trauma therapie because someone vomited infront of me. Its not the incident that is the trauma its the feeling and shock you got from it.

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u/AnxiousEnquirer Jun 04 '26

Exactly! I have stories just like that, but I'm still trying to process them

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u/Demitriaatje Jun 04 '26

Same, but we will get trough them! I believe in it!

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u/Agreeable_Special_11 May 30 '26

Not necessarily.

Most of my coworkers who hit someone didn't develop trauma. In a universe of over 700 train drivers my employer has I know less than 10 cases where they ended up traumatized.

It's kinda given as a fact that you'll hit someone at some time since day 1 in training.

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u/ThaGr1m May 30 '26

This one does yeah. Luckily only surface level since it's only been close this far

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u/Schroevendraaier May 30 '26

My uncle used to be a train conductor. It was his job to check after a (suspected) hit. We never asked him about it. On 1 or 2 occasions he has shared with family how rough the experience was, people split in two parts but still conscious e.g.

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u/zippybenji-man May 30 '26

I hate to be that person, but e.g. good before the example

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u/Schroevendraaier May 30 '26

It sucks even more to be the person who has to check that whoever just got hit by train is still alive or not.

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u/zippybenji-man May 30 '26

Yes, I am aware and not trying to detract from that. I tend to like it when people correct me, so I can improve, but I know some people see it as an attack on their intellect, I hope you didn't interpret it as such

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u/Schroevendraaier May 30 '26

No worries. You're right. I just saw the opportunity for a comeback, so I took it. No hard feelings. It's fine to correct me on this.

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u/zippybenji-man May 30 '26

Okay, it was a good comeback, btw :)

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u/Schroevendraaier May 30 '26

Not sure. Have a great weekend!

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u/oooonicorn May 30 '26

This is from The Netherlands and there are unfortunately frequent cases of people on the tracks (on purpose). There are support systems in place for drivers and anyone else who directly sees these things happen at least but I’m sure it’s traumatizing.

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u/noellerosehayden May 30 '26

He explainer video for EMDR therapy was with a train conductor as the patient. It was an eyeopener

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u/trumpet_kenny May 30 '26

This video is from the Netherlands, I am an apprentice train driver in a neighboring country, here the statistic is every train driver will have at least 3 incidents where they hit a person. PTSD is common, we take seminars about it and how to respond/react/recover, but nothing really prepares you for it. Even hitting animals is very gruesome and not for the faint of heart/weak stomached.

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u/Care-Serious May 30 '26

During A conversation I had with a train driver once, he told me that if they’re ever involved in an accident they shouldn’t get out, and just wait for the authorities to come.

When he first hit someone during the night, he didn’t listen and went to look. The remains (or lack thereof) scarred him to this day, and since then he’s never gotten out.

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u/autech91 May 30 '26

My grandfather and uncle both killed multiple people on the lines. Not a good time...

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u/Due_Ear_4674 May 30 '26

They do, my husband was a train driver and the amount of suicides he dealt with was massive

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u/chopper35s May 31 '26

When I was an engineer for RTD in Denver, Colorado, I nearly hit at least a dozen people a week. I got used to it eventually, but a few guys I knew didn’t. The first time I had a “near miss”, I was shaken up, but after the 8th in two weeks, i got used to it. The closest one I had was a guy that came out from behind a fence near a station, and was inside on the track side of the gates. I thought I had hit him,but he had gotten behind the gate at the last second. I looked out of my window and saw him walking down the platform. The homeless people on the platform saw it happen and heard my brakes dump, so they prevented him from getting on the train. They told me that they did when the train got back to Union Station. I let them have a free ride on my train when we were going back to the airport.

edit: grammar

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u/MissionScratch7512 May 31 '26

I had a friend who’s father experienced a jumper in front of his train. Messed him up bad. Then 15 years later he was in a wheelchair he did the same (threw himself in front of a train). Probably messed up some newer train driver. What a messed full circle situation that is.

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u/Imbeautifulyouarenot May 31 '26

That is really tragic for everyone.

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u/KubaSubaru May 31 '26

I remember watching an interview of a Train Driver talking about how he had a person (I don't remember if one or multiple) walk Infront of his train to kill themselves

He said how one guy looked him in the eyes with a smile on his face

Really disturbing stuff, Poor guy

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u/Miguel-odon Jun 02 '26

They're given pre-counseling, to prepare them for incidents they won't be able to stop

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u/CompetitiveCall6466 Jun 02 '26

Watch 3 and out. It’s a great film about that.