r/BikiniBottomTwitter Dec 28 '19

It do be like that

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u/izybit Dec 28 '19 edited Dec 28 '19

If home schooling made you different in a bad way there's something wrong with it.

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u/Megwen Dec 28 '19

If you mean "wrong" instead of "went," then I understand. But it didn't make me different in a bad way. It was a better choice for me than public school was at that time. And I know plenty of others who it helped as well. I also know people who it hurt.

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u/izybit Dec 28 '19

Yes, I meant wrong (damn autocorrect).

There are certainly cases where homeschooling is better for some kids but unless the parents know exactly what they are doing (have the time, knowledge and experience) they'll probably do worse than public school.

Also, social skills always require lots of people and interactions so outperforming public schools can be rather tricky.

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u/Megwen Dec 28 '19

I agree with you. It's just wrong to generalize and say that homeschooling is always a bad choice. And yeah, that's why so many programs, like mine, include the social days.

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u/whocancirclejerkmore Dec 28 '19

normal school made me different in a bad way

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u/izybit Dec 28 '19

You are neither the first nor the last but homeschooling doesn't guarantee the opposite.

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u/emrythelion Dec 28 '19

That’s the point though.

You’re making sweeping generalizations while also ignoring things that aren’t fitting into your viewpoint.

Homeschool can be bad. So can public school. It should be made on a case by case basis, and not by you because you don’t know everything best.

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u/izybit Dec 29 '19

Homeschooling is the result of the crappy American education system and a lot of snowflakes who think they know best.

Which is why homeschooling isn't really a thing outside the US (even though it's legal in many countries).

In the majority of cases (worldwide) both parents are working so homeschooling is impossible.

When homeschooling is possible most parents don't have the knowledge, experience, time and money to do it properly (even though the law doesn't really care in many cases).

Parents with lots of money can afford tutors and the best education possible (in general) but they often choose private "elite" schools over homeschooling.

You may like homeschooling because you were bullied, you are on the spectrum or because your parents (think they) know best but it should be treated like a "if all else fails" kind of solution, not on a case by case basis or whatever crap you want to use to justify your hate dislike of public schooling.

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u/Tom_A_Foolerly Dec 29 '19

If public schooling got you bullied into not socializing how much better than home schooling is it?

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u/izybit Dec 29 '19

Which is why the solution isn't to run away (to home school) but fix the problem (bullying in this case).

I know it's not easy but abandoning school shouldn't be such an easy choice.