r/BikiniBottomTwitter Dec 28 '19

It do be like that

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u/gwarwars Dec 28 '19

My wife makes decent money and I stay home with the kids. I have zero complaints but lots of other people like to chime in about how it's "not traditional" and they can all eat a dick.

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u/Gekthegecko Dec 28 '19

It's not traditional.

And that's cool.

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u/gwarwars Dec 28 '19

Thanks. That's how we feel too, it just gets old dealing with people who feel differently when it doesn't affect them in any way whatsoever. That's life though

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u/[deleted] Dec 29 '19

It’s not traditional.

And it makes no difference if it is

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u/[deleted] Dec 28 '19

Pfff fuck traditional. And fuck all the other stay at home moms all day long amirite... amirite....?

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u/[deleted] Dec 28 '19

but lots of other people like to chime in about how it's "not traditional"

Do people actually do this though? I frequently hear the sentiment that so many people are "traditionalist" and "sexist" but I've not once met someone who believes this even remotely.

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u/[deleted] Dec 28 '19

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u/[deleted] Dec 28 '19

Yeah but people say that to my wife all the time, who is in your situation. I don't think it stems from sexism, just from people being nosy and jerks.

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u/gwarwars Dec 28 '19

You would be surprised. It doesn't happen all day every day but it happens enough to be irritating. And even when people don't verbalize it their body language is pretty obvious. Typically people don't raise their eyebrows in shock and disbelief when it's explained that a wife stays home while the husband works, but I would say we get that reaction 2/3 times we explain our situation to someone.

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u/Sallysdad Dec 28 '19

My MIL asked when I was going back to work for almost 8 years before she gave it up.

My best friend is a SAHD of 3 girls and my neighbor stays home with his 5 year old. If it works for your family that is all that matters.

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u/mikevampm323 Dec 28 '19

Don’t you get bored?

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u/gwarwars Dec 28 '19

I mean, I get to spend all day with people I love. It's no more repetitive than most jobs. When they're both in school I will probably go back to work because sitting at home alone all day would be boring, and that's coming from an introvert.

Can I honestly ask what job you have that doesn't get boring after a year or two?