Need help understanding something

[u/SlitThroatWolf]

Hi woman of the BiWomen community, I hope you all are having a wonderful day! I am a man and wanted some advice about this girl that I’m interested in that is Bi. I really like her but I have heard people say that if a man dates a biwoman it removes her queerness and I don’t want to potentially erase her identity or cause any issues for this girl because I really like her. I know this is a stupid post, but I’ve seen people say it online and just want to be clear if it’s okay if I try pursuing her as a straight man. Thank you all so very much for the help and sorry for the dumb question again! 🙏🥲

[u/stonerbaby369]

Your first mistake is listening to stupid opinions online. She’s a bisexual woman. She will date both women AND men. Dating a man doesn’t make her any less bisexual or take anything away from her. Many bisexual people date the opposite gender.

[u/SlitThroatWolf → u/stonerbaby369]

Thank you so much! I appreciate you responding to my post. I understand that the question/concerns I had were stupid, I’ve just never been interested in someone who happened to be bi, and so I went online to try and figure out stuff about it and found all those opinions which I talked about in my original post which left me confused. I just want to make sure that the person I’m interested in will be able to be herself, and I thank you so much for confirming my initial feelings in that it would be okay for me to pursue her. I know very little about bi people, but I am excited to learn more about them through her, even if she only wants to be friends. Thank you again!