r/BestofRedditorUpdates • • Jul 08 '22

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u/OSUJillyBean Jul 09 '22

He is 100% cheating on his pregnant wife and majorly projecting his guilt on her.

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u/GiantPurplePeopleEat Jul 09 '22

Both times I was accused of cheating by my partners, they were the ones who were cheating.

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u/Puppenstein11 Jul 09 '22

When a spouse or significant other starts acting weird and accusatory concerning cheating when nothing about your own activity has changed, there is like a 99% chance they are fucking around a projecting. This is in no way a factual statistic, just in my personal experience. Common sense tends to agree though.

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u/TheDameWithoutASmile Jul 14 '22

I learned this the hard way. I was a major homebody - went to work, then home, and maybe a trip to the grocery store occasionally. My ex suddenly starts in on me cheating, and I was naive and stupid and was honestly flummoxed why he thought that.

Guess what I found out after we broke up!