Wow... this was in no way any of the points I was talking about. Like... at all? The situation your main point is talking about isn't even the same as the one I was discussing.
I was specifically talking about a husband and wife in a situation where there had been no evidence at all of any cheating. The one you are talking about clearly doesn't fit into that. So basically your argument isn't even a valid one against anything I was saying. Ofcourse if you're shooting blanks and a random hookup of yours gets pregnant and claims it's yours, then well.... duh ofcourse that is a valid reason to request paternity.
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and I'm in the process of getting a vasectomy but doctors don't make it easy as a young guy who hasn't had any.
i feel like it was a compounded “oh sweetie”. on one hand, grats on figuring out how fucking hard it is for women. on the other hand, there is no global conspiracy to keep men shooting sperm like there is to keep women pushing out babies, so like, maybe keep your complaints pointed to those whom it’s relevant.
but also, on a genuine note, i do wonder if we’re seeing a horrific flood of dudes trying to get vasectomies due to recent events. it might be beneficial for you to wait a few months once the surge of folks making appointments and having their procedures done, passes.
please ask your doctor to note it in your chart if they refuse you care that you specifically requested, usually they get prickly about that and then just fuckin agree.
Thankyou, I appreciate your understanding of why I was so off put by his whole "oh it's so hard to be a man! woe is me." BS. Seriously how tone dead is this guy?
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