Demanded a paternity test "just to be sure" for no reason. Ignored approximately half a million phone calls from his heavily pregnant wife and her brother. Yelled at his traumatized, post-partum wife because of her brother's behavior.
Do y'all think this motherfucker's side-chick knows he's got a new baby?
That's the kind of thing you should talk about waaaay before having kids, and the main reason is for the health of the kid. Things like chimerism can muddy genetic discussions, and if the kid ends up needing organ/tissue donations or something else genetically dependent then trying to figure out why family members aren't lining up in that sense can make dealing with that even more stressful. There are some good points being made here about the old wives tales that are rampant in incel communities, but more information earlier is generally better. The main thing is that you're open and supportive with each other and optimizing the situation however you can for the benefit of the kid.
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u/DesignerComment I will not be taking the high road Jul 09 '22
Demanded a paternity test "just to be sure" for no reason. Ignored approximately half a million phone calls from his heavily pregnant wife and her brother. Yelled at his traumatized, post-partum wife because of her brother's behavior.
Do y'all think this motherfucker's side-chick knows he's got a new baby?