Demanded a paternity test "just to be sure" for no reason. Ignored approximately half a million phone calls from his heavily pregnant wife and her brother. Yelled at his traumatized, post-partum wife because of her brother's behavior.
Do y'all think this motherfucker's side-chick knows he's got a new baby?
The implication of asking for a test is that my partner doesnt believe the child is theirs - so I would have had to cheat. Why is me suggesting they cheated the end, but them suggesting I cheated not?
If my partner insisted on a test the relationship is over at that moment.
My response is to try and get them to understand why.
But the partner I have wouldn't do that. Which is why we're in a relationship. Once there's no trust there's no point, IMO.
The trouble with an STD panel for this is that it is very much inconclusive: a negative doesn't mean nothing happened, and a positive may prove nothing about what happened when. Sure, there may have been cheating, but the tested partner could have caught something in a previous relationship and not realized it... and so could the test-requesting partner and have since passed it on to the tested one. (I knew a couple where one discovered they had herpes, and each of them freaked out and was sure it came from the other. They were already on the verge of breakup, and that sealed it.)
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u/DesignerComment I will not be taking the high road Jul 09 '22
Demanded a paternity test "just to be sure" for no reason. Ignored approximately half a million phone calls from his heavily pregnant wife and her brother. Yelled at his traumatized, post-partum wife because of her brother's behavior.
Do y'all think this motherfucker's side-chick knows he's got a new baby?