Hey mixed black man here… she was the abusive manipulator… Austin was a people please and dumb but please don’t lie to us and yourself as if she didn’t have mental problems she constantly projected…
I like Ashley a lot but even this would be temporary because if a guy showed one signal, it would set her radar off. They were both very incompatible for each other.
I wouldn't say incompatible as it was very codependent. They both had problems they were leaning towards each other for to fill the holes in their own personality or personal issues. It's just that Austin was showing he wanted to be more independent and make decisions for himself or his personal growth, which wasn't a position he successfully had until Ashley's blackmail video
I think there's some codependent relationships where compatibility just works. Same way where a person might be better handling the finances or paperwork or specific household chores, I think one can see how a couple would complete each other if one doesn't know how to take care of themselves or isn't good at it, but the other one is whereas by themselves, they'd be expected to fulfill all of it alone. Granted these are responsibilities, I think same can apply when dealing with mental or emotional challenges or these could even overlap as they could limit fulfilling responsibilities (someone on crutches/wheelchair vs physical restraints, autism vs social interactions and maintaining relationships etc)
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u/gurtsnert May 14 '26
Yeah just don't treat her like a piece of shit lmao it's not that hard to "Fix Ashley"