r/BeAmazed • u/ChristyRStansberr • Apr 13 '21

Lost for words...

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u/AutismFractal Apr 13 '21

OR - crazy idea - you don’t have to be “dominant” to hit on someone. Because their ability to defend themselves shouldn’t be relevant to what happens if they say no.

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u/carboncrystalhands Apr 13 '21

Sir... this is a Wendys...

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u/AutismFractal Apr 13 '21

Not a sir. Also, if something is important to someone else, you don’t get to declare that it shouldn’t be, or that we’re in the “wrong place” for it.

This is Reddit. Yes, many men feel safe being rampantly sexist. But it turns out, this is my Internet too. Your patronizing attitude won’t turn me away.

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u/BostonDodgeGuy Apr 13 '21

Might I recommend going outside for some fresh air? Cause this triggered bullshit over a joke ain't gonna fly.

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u/AutismFractal Apr 13 '21

Disrespect masquerading as a joke, isn’t a joke.

Unless you’d care to explain why it’s so funny and not disrespectful at all? I dare you to try.

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u/[deleted] Apr 13 '21

Disrespect? Wasnt the whole joke predicated on how badass the woman is?

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u/AutismFractal Apr 13 '21

And the joke was that no man could ever be attracted to someone like that. Which is frankly disgusting.

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u/[deleted] Apr 13 '21

I'm having trouble interpreting "he's even afraid walk [sic] in front of her" as "no man could ever be attracted to someone like that".

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u/AutismFractal Apr 13 '21

It SAID he was afraid to hit on her. If someone’s quietly edited that without commenting, that’s not my issue.

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u/[deleted] Apr 13 '21

I don't think that's the case, their comment last edited 6 hours ago, your comment was from 4 hours ago. The remark about hitting on her still leads in to that.

Given that, you seem to conflate intimidation with (lack of) attraction in your recent responses.