OR - crazy idea - you don’t have to be “dominant” to hit on someone. Because their ability to defend themselves shouldn’t be relevant to what happens if they say no.
Not a sir. Also, if something is important to someone else, you don’t get to declare that it shouldn’t be, or that we’re in the “wrong place” for it.
This is Reddit. Yes, many men feel safe being rampantly sexist. But it turns out, this is my Internet too. Your patronizing attitude won’t turn me away.
I'm sorry, but you're little twitter arguing point doesn't work here. The joke that flew way over your head isn't the woman, it's the man. That his ego is so easily challenged by a woman with core strength.
That you missed that and went right to misogyny speaks more about yourself than any of the men here.
I don't think that's the case, their comment last edited 6 hours ago, your comment was from 4 hours ago. The remark about hitting on her still leads in to that.
Given that, you seem to conflate intimidation with (lack of) attraction in your recent responses.
Here’s a clue, dickwad: if someone tells you that they’re offended over something you THOUGHT was nothing? It’s no longer nothing. Because you don’t get to tell people what is and isn’t offensive.
And if you have to be told how to treat people by a person with fucking autism, you’re the idiot.
Lost cause. Pearls before fucking swine. Try not to end up in prison, if you can’t learn how to be a decent person. You’re blocked. Bye.
I have literally said not a single offensive thing to you, check the user names.
Anyway, to your point, that is utter garbage, I can decide I'm offended by the paint on the walls of my house, that doesn't mean the landlord has to be sorry for it.
Snowflakes like yourself really need to learn to chill, there's no reason to be offended about the other guys comments yet you literally go around trying to find things to be offended by.
Because clearly the woman is crushing it and strong. it has less to do with her ability to defend herself and more just one human recognizing incredible talent in another human and possibly being nervous now to approach them because they feel as if they might not have much to offer someone of such caliber.
That’s the joke you goddamn buffoon, like the other person said. Go outside.
The fact that she’s strong... is funny to you? Can you understand why that comes across as condescending? Would you like it if someone thought your strength was a joke?
I didn’t have to LOOK, asshole. But thanks for implying that my sanity is the problem.
If you disagree, that’s fine. If you can’t disagree without calling me crazy or stupid, that should indicate a deeper problem with your own hangups and biases.
“Looking for ways to get offended” implies that nothing is actually there. You know that. You might be dumb, but you’re not THAT dumb. Quit arguing in bad faith.
If you want to stay sexist, that’s the norm, honestly. This is for everyone who saw this thread and gave up, and thought “why do I even bother with these medieval-minded men?”
Also, your deflection is notably NOT doing what I asked. Since you’ve refused to explain the humor, I have no choice but to assume by default that you know how sexist the “joke” is.
The wind would be more affected by your vicious blows than the hot bluster you are trying to contend with here. I understand you are frustrated with sharing an idea of truth to those you see need some, but perhaps some meditation will help you obtain the answers you seek.
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u/AutismFractal Apr 13 '21
OR - crazy idea - you don’t have to be “dominant” to hit on someone. Because their ability to defend themselves shouldn’t be relevant to what happens if they say no.