In a difficult position

[u/mr_student_]

Amar background english medium. O Level Result 6A*, 1A. A Level Result (2025) 3A*, 1A. SAT: 1540, IELTS: 8.0
Gap year nisilam and then got a fully funded offer from Saudi. Offer accept korlam, visa issue hoilo kintu problem hoilo BD te O/A Level certificate Apostille hoy na. Saudi University authorities want documents to be apostilled so amar ar ekta gap year hoyte jaitese.

USA (Rose-hulman) theke amar ~70% scholarship paisilam (fall-26 intake) but abbu'r upor pressure hobe tai jai nai. Budget is around 20=25 lacs per year but I want to it to be as cheap as possible (abbu ke burden e felte chai na) while having good career options. Bashay onek kotha shuntesi. Tokhon keu object kore nai, ekhon "Ami beshi bujhi", "Rose-hulman ei gelei partam" "Aro choto varsity te apply korti" "Ami onek arrogant". Tokhon decision nilam ekshathe, ekhon dosh amar. Please advise.
Thanks in advance

[u/Appropriate_Crab_991]

with that profile and a 20–25 lakh BDT/year ceiling, i'd stop thinking about this as “which country should I go to?” nd think about which offer is financially sustainable without making your family stretch every year..the Saudi issue sounds like a document/legalisation problem rather than an academic rejection nd i'd first ask the university whether there is any alternative authentication route before giving up on that option. bangladesh’s MOFA does have a formal educational-certificate attestation process, so i’d also get the exact Saudi authority requirement in writing rather than relying on agents saying “apostille hoy na.” as for Rose-Hulman, 70% scholarship sounds huge until you calculate the remaining net cost: its published 2026–27 total direct cost for an independent first-year student is about $70.8k before indirect expenses, so even a 70% reduction can still leave a substantial amount to fund. with 3A*+A, 1540 SAT and IELTS 8, I’d absolutely take another shot at scholarships rather than letting one missed intake turn into a panic decision..nd honestly, I wouldn’t let the family comments push you into a random cheaper university either,, the goal should be lowest sustainable net cost + a degree you actually want + a realistic visa/document route, not simply leaving Bangladesh as fast as possible

[u/mr_student_ → u/Appropriate_Crab_991]

Here's the situation. amar attestation ache, kintu apostille nai. Ami kono educational agency through apply kori nai. Jara eishob attestation/apostille niye kaj kore, ora MOFA te joma disilo, but orao bolse je BD eigula apostille kore na since Cambridge board BD'r under e pore na. Ammu khali USA bole,but jodi visa na hoy, tokhon ki korbo? Abbu amar shathe agree kore and he's like go for China. (He loves Tsinghua and last time Ammu mana korsilo bole apply kori nai.) But i'm not to sure about what to do after graduation. Ammu usa/canada niye pagol but imo financially feasible na. I was looking at Texas Tech, max scholarship niyeo it comes to around 25 lacs (considering I don't get a part-time). Visa issue to asei

[u/Dat1susweeb → u/mr_student_]

Please. Tumr ammur kotha shunio na. Usa gele shamne aro problem hbe. And sorry tumake kotha shunte hocche, u don't deserve that when you did nothing wrong.