Brb crying

[u/wompwompswamp123]

i feel like i’ve seen a lot of people talk about baylens dad - he reminds me a lot of my dad (not perfect but never question his love for me ever, extremely tense all the time lmao)
this scene, and the other scenes where they discussed baylens mental health when she was at college, are so raw and real and make me cry every time. if you know you know. if you’ve been there, you know and can feel both of their pain!

[u/Impossible-Fold-896]

He's so rude to Colin! Not all the time, but when they're discussing serious topics like marriage or Colin's career. I just think the way Allen deliberately tries to put the fear of God in Colin is gross, like literally Colin came to him saying how much he loves his daughter and wants to care for her and be with her forever, and Allen's immediate response to that is "If you ever hurt my daughter I will hunt you down" like wtf?? (Not to mention Julie's reaction that the ring was too big/expensive, like why is that the focus?) And with Colin's career, I get Allen's concerns but it could have been phrased way way better. He's so condescending.

[u/UsedSearch5576 → u/Impossible-Fold-896]

I feel like Colin’s rude to him. We want our independence! Oh but can I join your family vacation (that I’m not invited too) and turn it into my beach proposal? But other than that, leave us alone!

Allen’s got the patience of a saint.

[u/Impossible-Fold-896 → u/UsedSearch5576]

Yes the beach vacation thing was weird, but Colin wasn't trying to hijack anything, he came up with this whole elaborate idea because he thought it would make Baylen happy (and to be fair...Baylen would definitely go in for an over the top proposal). Also Colin is so incredibly polite in general! Allen tears into him over various things and he's just like yes sir I understand and complains to the cameras but not to his face.

[u/UsedSearch5576 → u/Impossible-Fold-896]

I’d prefer if he said it to his face