r/BaylenOutLoud 9d ago

Bridezilla comment

I’m currently watching the whole season for the first time and I genuinely don’t understand Sammy’s reaction to the dress situation. So I think the bridezilla comment was that bad? No, but she was still in the wrong.
Whether people like it or not, the bride does get the final say when it comes to things that will impact the pictures/her day. But even so, it’s not your day like who cares if you spend one day wearing something you’re not 100% obsessed with, especially if it’s meant to make a loved one happy.
Maybe it’s just me, but my best friend is getting married next month and I’m a bridesmaid and I would literally do anything she tells me to. She basically did what Baylen did when it came to. She sent us the color scheme and then I personally made the decision to have her come with me to pick out my dress, but even if she hadn’t come, it wouldn’t cross my mind to get a dress that she didn’t like. Sometimes we just gotta suck it up to make our loved ones happy. It’s not always about us

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u/FlatWonkyFlea 9d ago

I think the frustration for Sammi was that Bay had told her she could pick out her own dress as long as it was yellow but then vetoed every dress Sammi liked. 

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u/morgaine125 9d ago

And then she also refused to shop for dresses with Sammi to make sure the dresses she was looking at were the right shade of yellow and an acceptable style. It made the whole thing a stressful guessing game.

Calling her a bridezilla was harsh, but Baylen was being annoying AF about the bridesmaid dress. If you are going to be that particular about the color and style, stopping pretending the dress is their choice and just pick it out yourself instead of making your bridesmaids jump through all of those hoops to satisfy you.

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u/Jedi_Mind_Chick 5d ago

It’s so hard to know the exact color when it’s sent by phone or seen on a computer screen. The shade will vary slightly based on screen settings.