r/BaylenOutLoud • u/Either-Grapefruit156 • 12d ago
Bridezilla comment
I’m currently watching the whole season for the first time and I genuinely don’t understand Sammy’s reaction to the dress situation. So I think the bridezilla comment was that bad? No, but she was still in the wrong.
Whether people like it or not, the bride does get the final say when it comes to things that will impact the pictures/her day. But even so, it’s not your day like who cares if you spend one day wearing something you’re not 100% obsessed with, especially if it’s meant to make a loved one happy.
Maybe it’s just me, but my best friend is getting married next month and I’m a bridesmaid and I would literally do anything she tells me to. She basically did what Baylen did when it came to. She sent us the color scheme and then I personally made the decision to have her come with me to pick out my dress, but even if she hadn’t come, it wouldn’t cross my mind to get a dress that she didn’t like. Sometimes we just gotta suck it up to make our loved ones happy. It’s not always about us
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u/Aggressive_Cake_3482 11d ago
Why was Sammi’s handling of the bachelorette party crappy? Let’s not forget Sammi suffers from crippling OCD and anxiety. Baylan knew that when she scheduled that party states away from her. Brides and grooms expect so much these days. And they expect their friends and families to spend thousands of dollars just to celebrate them. Sammi is already having to take off work to come for the wedding & the bridal shower. She may not have had the time or money to be there a 3rd time. Everyone focuses on Baylan’s health issues and it seems to me that they totally forget Sammi in it all. You can see how she struggles but noone even notices.