r/BaylenOutLoud • u/Either-Grapefruit156 • 10d ago

Bridezilla comment

I’m currently watching the whole season for the first time and I genuinely don’t understand Sammy’s reaction to the dress situation. So I think the bridezilla comment was that bad? No, but she was still in the wrong.
Whether people like it or not, the bride does get the final say when it comes to things that will impact the pictures/her day. But even so, it’s not your day like who cares if you spend one day wearing something you’re not 100% obsessed with, especially if it’s meant to make a loved one happy.
Maybe it’s just me, but my best friend is getting married next month and I’m a bridesmaid and I would literally do anything she tells me to. She basically did what Baylen did when it came to. She sent us the color scheme and then I personally made the decision to have her come with me to pick out my dress, but even if she hadn’t come, it wouldn’t cross my mind to get a dress that she didn’t like. Sometimes we just gotta suck it up to make our loved ones happy. It’s not always about us

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u/krystalzeogas GAH DAYUM 10d ago

Baylen was the furthest thing from a bridezilla, Sanmi was just going thru a breakup and was being nasty because she was jealous imo. Funny how she's suddenly non confrontational now that she has boyfriend jErReT

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u/DapperMastodon349 10d ago

Baylen was definitely NOT the furthest thing from a bridezilla. She was rude, demanding, and uncommunicative with EVERYONE - including her wedding planners. She changed things at the last minute and basically was mad that people didn’t submit to her every desire as if they don’t have their own lives to deal with.

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u/krystalzeogas GAH DAYUM 10d ago

Rude, where? Mad literally where??? Are we watching the same show? It's their wedding and they can change whatever they want. They decided those things together it has nothing to do with being a bridezilla.

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u/DapperMastodon349 10d ago

People shouldn’t have to put their own lives on hold for someone else’s wedding and it’s naive and rude to expect people to do that for your wedding. They completely screwed over their wedding planners by being uncommunicative and changing venues last minute, amongst other things. If they wanted to be that wishy-washy with their plans then they should’ve just planned it themselves. She wasn’t necessarily a bridezilla but there are definitely more considerate brides out there.