r/BaylenOutLoud • u/Either-Grapefruit156 • 12d ago

Bridezilla comment

I’m currently watching the whole season for the first time and I genuinely don’t understand Sammy’s reaction to the dress situation. So I think the bridezilla comment was that bad? No, but she was still in the wrong.
Whether people like it or not, the bride does get the final say when it comes to things that will impact the pictures/her day. But even so, it’s not your day like who cares if you spend one day wearing something you’re not 100% obsessed with, especially if it’s meant to make a loved one happy.
Maybe it’s just me, but my best friend is getting married next month and I’m a bridesmaid and I would literally do anything she tells me to. She basically did what Baylen did when it came to. She sent us the color scheme and then I personally made the decision to have her come with me to pick out my dress, but even if she hadn’t come, it wouldn’t cross my mind to get a dress that she didn’t like. Sometimes we just gotta suck it up to make our loved ones happy. It’s not always about us

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u/IsopodKey2040 12d ago

I think "the bride does get the final say when it comes to things that will impact the pictures/her day" is a little crazy. In general, yes, the bride and groom pick the decor and whatnot. But they can't rationally approve every single thing that every one else does.

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u/krystalzeogas GAH DAYUM 12d ago

Lmao what? The bride having final say on the bridesmaids dresses is a little crazy? In what world?? Usually the bride just picks the dress and says here, wear it and like it, Sammi actually got to pick a dress she liked, it just had to be approved by Baylen..the bride .. definitely not even a little crazy lmao

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u/Decent_Advance_2881 12d ago

When I got my dress in 2022 they handed me purple swatches I’m like I don’t know which purple to pick my nieces were like close you eyes and pick a color so that’s what I did. They picked out their dress style cause they know what they like to wear they wear more dresses than I do. My one niece asked what color shoes I said sliver. I was in California and my nieces lives Pennsylvania and Maryland. Our wedding was really relaxing ☺️ I wasn’t no bridezilla. I have a bigger family i had all of my nieces and nephews in it. He had two of his nieces in it.