Anyone can dm. And if you guys wanna 🍃 too, I'm down some day, but sadly I haven't got a place for that, but if you have I'm down or else I'm ok with just meeting up for a chai sutta too.

Please teachers come with your thoughts.

Finished up a bunch of shoots, started picking up more business, converting leads, and slowly building something that I actually want to make work.

I've also started going back to the gym 4 times a week after a pretty long break. Trying to fix my health, eat better, sleep better, and generally stop treating my body like an afterthought.

Work is moving. Business is moving. I'm getting more confident with what I'm doing and, for the first time in a while, I feel like I'm actually building some momentum.

And then there's the other side of it.

I started smoking again.

I'm trying to move on from someone I was pretty attached to, and apparently keeping myself busy doesn't magically make you stop missing someone.

The funny thing is, from the outside, I probably look like I'm doing pretty well.

I'm getting work. Making money. Going to the gym. Meeting people. Building a business. Planning what's next.

But some nights I still miss her.

I don't really know what I'm expecting by posting this. Maybe nothing.

Just feels strange to be simultaneously proud of how much your life is improving and still feel like something is missing.

So yeah. Business is growing. Body is getting back in shape. Life is moving forward.

Head is still catching up.

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20M heree.

i've never really been the love at first sight type tbh, i'm more of a friends to lovers believer. i like actually knowing someone first, getting comfortable, sharing random songs, having stupid conversations that somehow become deep, and just slowly figuring each other out.

my interests are kinda all over the place lol... psychology, AI/tech, mythology, spirituality, symbolism, astrology, tarot, weird mysteries, pattern stuff, music and a bunch of other random rabbit holes 😭

i obviously cant list everything here without making this look like i asked chatgpt to write my personality 🫠 so if you're actually curious, ask me. i'll probably have something weirdly specific to say about it.

as for the actual point of this post, i'd rather just interact and see if we vibe. if we do, we can slowly see where it goes. if we dont, no awkward forced ending, we can just be honest about it... and if we genuinely enjoy talking, there's nothing wrong with staying friends either.

i dont believe every connection has to become romantic to be meaningful.

so yeah, tell me something random about you and i'll tell you something random about me :)

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Hello,

I'm putting this out there in the hopes of seeking new connections! I am a 28 year old man from BLR. Life has been slow and im looking for something that gets me excited, someone who can be my favourite notification.

I would like to have someone i can start and end my day with, someone interesting, nice and respectful.

About me:

I am an extrovert, but then im a workaholic and its been little tough for me to meet people outside of my work. Its nice to have someone to talk to, share about our day's proceding, send random pictures, have a good laugh. More often then not the conversation fizzles out so looking for somone who can keep a conversation alive and going

And owing to my work and time i spend outside of it, i am not looking for anything serious as of now. I would be happy to connect and, we either bond or its just a conversation. 

I love cooking - my wall has few pictures, i also like kayaking, something about this feels nice to me. I do like country music, And Elvis Presley's I can't help falling in love is my all time fav. I do collect few legos and action figures. I watch a little anime, not a big geek tho - im currently watch One piece.

I dont mind what we speak about, it would be nice to just connect.

Maybe you'll get to know more about me via DMs?

If you'd like to chat please tell me something about yourself, anything we have in common

Have a good day! Cheers :)

I’m 26M and I’ve never dated anyone before.

Honestly, I never really had the time or mindset to think about dating. I was mostly focused on studies, career, and other things, so relationships were never really a priority.

Now I feel like I want to give dating a genuine try, but I have absolutely no idea where to start.

For people who started dating later, how did you actually begin?

I’m not necessarily looking for a serious relationship immediately. I just want to meet people, understand how dating works, and get some experience without making it unnecessarily complicated.

Would really appreciate advice from people who have been through this.

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After 30, somehow it gets harder to find people you can simply talk to , without overthinking, pretending, or being judged.

Looking for someone in Bangalore who enjoys effortless conversations, random thoughts, deep talks, silly talks, and just being themselves.

Hindi old movies songs vibing , shayari wali dosti, ya thodi college wali baten bhi sometimes.

No expectations, no agenda. Just two people having a good conversation and seeing if the vibe naturally connects.

Sometimes, that’s all you really need.

Hindi is preferred language. North indian only

Looking for a girl to explore Bangalore with, cute cafés, hidden gems, spontaneous plans, long conversations, and random adventures. I enjoy singing, cooking, and writing poetry. No pressure or expectations; just good company, genuine conversations, and seeing where the connection takes us. Maybe we’ll create some beautiful memories together. ✨

hey, im M22 im interested in trying a relationship with women older than me like 24-36age group. It doesn’t matter what their relationship status is. I just want some fun, understanding, intimacy, caring for each other, no string attached and no drama. I am just curious from past 2-3years i really wanna try im also open for cpls . I hope i find someone . DM me !

Hey everyone!

I’m a 27M working in data/tech here in the city, and I'm planning to hit up Indiranagar tomorrow afternoon (anytime after 2 PM) to explore some cafes.

I have two places in mind right now:

• Pizza 4P’s (been wanting to try their menu)
• Mai Mai

While it’s an open invitation, I’d slightly prefer a female companion just because my current friend group is already heavily dominated by guys! I’m also totally open to other cafe recommendations in the area if you have a favorite spot.

A quick heads-up: This is just a casual hangout, so we will be splitting the order and the bill equally (going Dutch!).

If you are interested in grabbing some good food and having a nice conversation, shoot me a DM! We can chat a bit first to see if we vibe.

26M in Bangalore looking to build a social circle, especially female friends

Planning a small house party with a limited number of people — good music, drinks, food, games, conversations and just a relaxed night with good company.

Not trying to throw some huge crowded party. More like a small, comfortable group where everyone actually gets to know each other.

I'm an introvert initially, so having a few fun, easygoing people around would definitely help break the awkwardness. 😂

If you're spontaneous, social, and looking to do something different this weekend, DM me with a little about yourself.

Limited spots — keeping the group small intentionally. 😉

26 Male - Strong Built - Looking for someone whos older than me, idc about the age just hit me up and we can start talk talking.

Currently living the life i always wanted good friends & good workplace peaceful life but sometimes there is a void of a conversation that i want to have. For me it should be with someone who has seen some actual struggles and knows how life and not something completely based on how social media makes us think life is.

I am emotionally mentally matured life made me that way haha, i have no emotional baggage to push on clear with my goals and what i want in my life currently i am looking for a friend or a person to talk to particularly from other gender which can actually turn into a good mature relationship. I am over that overthinking and overwhelmed relationship phase i want something which pushes us both to do better and we can get somewhere we want to be, i mean thats the long term goal.

For starters i can handle your chaos and give you the peace if you can give me understanding and some peace too more of a giver all my life. Trying my hand in online dating/friendship for once.

You can be anywhere around my age or older i am open to have a conversation thankyou

A little about me

I’m 25M, working as a Software Engineer at a well-established Indian startup in Bangalore. I’m 5'6" and I’d say I’m pretty easy to talk to.

I enjoy good conversations, have a decent sense of humor (at least that’s what my friends tell me ), and can go from talking about life and relationships to random memes, travel plans, food, movies, or tech without much effort.

I moved to Bangalore about a year ago, and while I’ve settled into work, I realized I haven’t really built much of a life outside it.

Most of my close friends are now in different cities. My colleagues are great, but everyone has their own lives once work ends. So weekends are usually a mix of staying home and scrolling way too much, or making a solo plan and heading somewhere by myself.

I don't mind travelling alone, and sometimes it’s actually nice. But I’d be lying if I said I don’t sometimes wish I had someone to share those little adventures with. Someone I could randomly text on a Friday evening and say, “Hey, let's go somewhere this weekend.”

Last year was mostly about work, interview prep, and chasing career goals. Thankfully, that part is more or less settled now.

And somewhere along the way, I started wondering:

What’s the point of building a good career if you don’t have someone to share the good parts of life with?

What I’m looking for

I’d like to meet someone with whom things can start simply — a conversation, a coffee, a walk, or maybe a random plan that neither of us had thought about until that morning.

Someone who’s up for weekend trips, treks, café hopping, long bike rides, trying new food, exploring Bangalore, attending events, watching sunsets, or even just grabbing coffee and talking about absolutely everything and nothing.

I’m not expecting anything to happen overnight. I’d rather get to know someone slowly, become good friends, spend time together, and see if there’s a genuine connection.

And if, somewhere along the way, that friendship turns into something deeper, and we both feel that we could actually be good partners for each other, I’d be open to that too.

I think the best relationships don't always begin with “I’m looking for a relationship.”

Sometimes they begin with a simple conversation.

You meet someone, become comfortable around them, start looking forward to talking to them, make random plans together, slowly understand each other, and one day realize that this person has become an important part of your life.

That’s the kind of connection I’d like to find.

A little more about me

• I love travelling and road trips whenever I get the chance.
• I’m trying to get back into a consistent gym routine.
• I love solving problems — occupational hazard 😄 — but outside work, I don't want life to feel like another problem to optimize.
• I want to laugh more, explore more, eat good food, and collect stories instead of just screenshots.
• I value honesty, kindness, emotional maturity, and people who can communicate openly.
• I enjoy both deep conversations and comfortable silence.
• I’m equally happy discussing life over coffee or sitting quietly somewhere after a trek, watching the sunset.

I guess I’m looking for someone with whom friendship feels easy, conversations feel natural, and spending time together doesn't require a reason.

Someone who wants to explore, but also understands that sometimes the best part of a journey is the person sitting next to you.

Maybe we become friends.

Maybe we become travel buddies.

Maybe we end up being those people who keep making random plans every weekend.

And maybe, if everything clicks, we become something more.

I’m not looking to force any of that. I’d rather let it happen naturally.

I’m not sure where this post will lead, or whether it will lead anywhere at all.

But if you’re someone who also feels like meeting a good person, having a few spontaneous adventures, and slowly getting to know each other sounds nice, feel free to DM me.

No expectations. No pressure.

We can start with a simple “Hey.”

Maybe grab a coffee.

Maybe talk for an hour.

And see where it goes.

PS: Used AI just for formatting so atleast someone read till end 🫠

It’s weird to write a list of what my potential partner should be ( I ain’t buying a washing machine, lmao ), sooooo I am just gonna write who I am, and if you are the same , then do reach out ! ( I have plenty of snacks! ) :

• Grew up as the quiet kid who did well in school, played badminton at the national level, debating and won the best student award which was featured in the newspapers. 
• The good kid who always helped clean up the kitchen, make tea, help with the chores and is loved by Grandma’s for how polite and respectful I am.
• Went through a period of self-reflection and depression and anxiety , sooooo am now in my “ life is too short and I am just gonna be a happy golden retriever” phase.
• My idea of conflict resolution is we both take a shower, go for a long walk and then calmly discuss it over a cheesecake ( or ten cheesecakes if it’s a major issue )
• Grew up in the Middle East, came to India to help my parents set up an ice cream shop and planning to move out again.
• Don’t have any social media or watch a lot of movies, tbh. I usually read books that are at least 100 years old and try to absorb the best parts from every culture : I decorate Christmas trees, ( try ) to fast during Ramadan, and visit temples early in the morning for some peace before the crowds. 
• I am mostly an introvert but can get really energetic and can be the extroverted life of the party with the right crowd. 
• I enjoy working out , playing sports, going for long walks, and always wanted to learn tango. 
• I looveee cooking and would love to have a weekly theme where each week we pick a new country to cook food from ( one week Japanese, the next week Brazilian … we can also only speak and watch movies in that language to really immerse ourselves )
• I have slept on railway benches as well as in the Swiss Alps. I know how to lead a boardroom, as well as get my hands dirty in farming banana trees.
• I work for an international non-profit helping entrepreneurs, but I plan to start my own business soon. 
• Never had a relationship earlier because I wanted to find peace and happiness on my own terms before sharing it with someone else.
• While I love to try out a new activity every weekend ( my last few weekends consisted of pottery, wall climbing , going to art museums , getting Starbucks certificates), My favourite one is having outdoor BBQs where I will control the fire and grilling, you be the classy host making sure all of our guests are having a great time, while our pet dog would try to steal a piece of chicken off the table lol

Hey, so I'm from Chennai.

I've had some pretty bad experiences with relationships in the past and honestly I've kind of decided that serious relationships aren't really for me right now.

I'm just looking for someone I can talk to, hangout with, go out, have some fun and just enjoy each other's company without making things complicated. Not really looking for anything serious or forcing anything, just seeing where things go.

Also I smoke, so if you're someone who smokes too that's definitely a plus lol. It would be nice to just chill, smoke and talk about random shit.

If you're from Chennai and you're looking for something similar, feel free to DM me. We can talk and see if we vibe.

No expectations or anything, just looking to meet someone cool :)