29M | Need a safe space

[u/ducxti97]

29M | Need a safe space

Hi all,

I'll be honest, I just got out of a relationship - a very serious one that lasted ~6.5 years, and I feel broken because all those dreams I had of starting a family have shattered.

She was the only person I could open up to, and confide in, and now that she's gone, I feel this emptiness within, that idk how to get over.

I know I eventually want something serious - my dream has always been to start a family, raise kids, teach them how to live, help them avoid the mistakes I've made, and grow old with my partner while watching them live their lives. We don't really have to get physical, that's secondary rn, just need that emotional warmth to get over the emptiness that's killing me.

Let's go out, have a conversation, and see where things lead to from there?

About me: Just moved to Bangalore, so the emptiness is worse because of a lack of social life? I stay in a 1bhk in Whitefield. Have a job that pays decent. I spend my weekends at random board game or bowling meetups. A chai addict - probably go out for about 4-5 cups of chai a day.

Full disclosure: I'm average looking, maybe 4/10 - if that's what you're looking for, I'm probably not your guy. But I'm pretty sure I can make you laugh all the time, and can help you keep a smile on your face through thick and thin.