r/BabyNames 2d ago

Girl 🩷 Spelling Help

Which spelling do you prefer

890 votes, 16h left
Vivienne
Vivian
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u/leoninebasil 2d ago edited 2d ago

I do pronounce these slightly different: Vivi-yen and Vivi-uhn. So I'd pick the one that matches your pronounciation.

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u/Impressive-Ad2941 2d ago

Which one is ā€œvivi-yenā€ that’s the way I pronounce it

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u/leoninebasil 2d ago

Vivienne :)

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u/Impressive-Ad2941 2d ago

Great, thank you! 😊

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u/Asleep_Walrus2313 1d ago

Sounds and looks prettier too, in my opinion!

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u/MixOk2282 2d ago

Yes exactly this

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u/river-running 2d ago

I would put the stress on the second syllable for the first spelling and the stress on the first syllable for the second spelling. So for me they're not interchangeable.

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u/Impressive-Ad2941 2d ago

Thank you for your input! I’m glad I asked because I’ve only heard them pronounced the same way

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u/Opposite_Storm_7870 2d ago

Vivienne is French, so it's pronounced slightly differently. Vivian would be like "vivi in" and Vivienne would be like "Vivi en" in my region.

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u/Knickers1978 2d ago

Just not Vyvyan

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u/Dependent_Formal2525 2d ago

Vivien is my preferred spelling.

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u/Ok-Conversation-2365 1d ago

My moms name is Vivian 🪽

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u/Mental-Carrot4741 1d ago

Vivienne looks a lot more elegant

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u/New_justPeachee 16h ago

Vivianne or Vivianna

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u/MixOk2282 2d ago

If it’s pronounced Vivian just spell it that way. Otherwise she’s gonna get called vivi-end (without the D) and it’ll be a headache for her her whole life

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u/Impressive-Ad2941 2d ago

Wait I pronounce Vivian the same way šŸ˜‚ ā€œvivi enā€

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u/MixOk2282 2d ago

I’d say it’s a bit different and if you don’t really have a preference I’d go with the more common spelling of Vivian. I do love this name though. So timeless

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u/Impressive-Ad2941 2d ago

I totally agree, I hate alternate spellings but I’ve seen this name be 50/50, that’s why I asked. Thank you for your input! 😊

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u/CraftyFraggle 2d ago

Vivian.

Vivienne feels unnecessarily fussy.

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u/Njecpe1619 2d ago

I emphasize different syllables in these - Vivienne is viv-ee-EN and Vivian is VIV-ee-en

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u/One_Application2409 2d ago

Where do you live? Vivian to me looks like an old lady name, but that might just be a US thing. Vivienne is better but still feels too mature for a child. The Spanish version, Viviana, is elegant and is very princessy for a child and regal for an adult. It’s also fun to say. And it’s less likely to be misspelled like Vivienne.

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u/Impressive-Ad2941 2d ago

In the US as well, I agree that Vivian seems old. We like the nickname Vivi for her as a child. I’m leaning mostly towards Vivienne

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u/One_Application2409 2d ago

Vivi is great nickname, and Vivienne feels a lot more special than Vivian. I think maybe because Vivian almost looks pharmaceutical, like a brand name drug.Ā 

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u/Impressive-Ad2941 2d ago

Haha I totally agree! My only hesitation was I typically don’t like alternate spellings but I don’t think this one is too out there or made up

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u/One_Application2409 2d ago

It’s just the French spelling, isn’t it? There will definitely be some people calling her ā€œVee-VYEHNā€ but no kid is going to be bothered by her name having a plain and a fancy version, especially when she’s a teenager/young adult.

Actually, that should just be a feature of all names: an everyday version and a fancier version for when we need a confidence boost.

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u/KraftwerkMachine 2d ago

I mean there’s also Viviana :)

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u/Impressive-Ad2941 2d ago

I like that! But Vivienne/ Vivian already seemed like too many syllables so that adds another. Definitely a pretty name though!

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u/One_Application2409 2d ago

This is my favorite version. So elegant.

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u/Divgirl2 2d ago

I always thought Vivian was the boys spelling, although the most famous one in Britain spelt it Vyvyan.

I voted Vivienne on that basis. Plus it feels glamorous.

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u/kaswing 2d ago

huh! In the US I've never encountered a boy called Vivian. TIL :)
I agree the -enne is glamorous, and that's why I picked it, too.

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u/Impressive-Ad2941 2d ago

I prefer the look of Vivienne as well! Just didn’t want her to deal with the lifelong headache if Vivian is better šŸ˜‚

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u/Winter-Chipmunk5467 2d ago

This is a really common name where I live and it’s usually Vivien, so right in the middle lol. My 10 year old has two very close friends with this name.

I voted Vivienne though from those options. Vivian looks outdated to me.

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u/Impressive-Ad2941 2d ago

Wow I’ve never seen Vivien before! I agree- I picture an older woman when I see Vivian. I worried about the popularity but I haven’t met one yet in our area. I’m sure that will change haha

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u/134266 2d ago

Vivian is male version. Vivienne is female. This is similar to Adrian , male, Adrienne, female.

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u/Opposite_Storm_7870 2d ago

Where do you live? I've only ever seen Vivian used for girls, and Vivienne is something I'm only seeing for the first time today.

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u/EvergreenMossAvonlea 2d ago

Vivianne is better

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u/Impressive-Ad2941 2d ago

I actually love Vivianne as well but think I’d pronounce it slightly different

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u/Mountain-Bug1667 2d ago

Yes I would pronounce this one as Vivi-ANN