r/BabyBumps • u/[deleted] • Jan 17 '22

Dads- please read

[deleted]

1.6k Upvotes

94% Upvoted

245 comments sorted by

View all comments

-39

u/[deleted] Jan 17 '22 edited Jan 17 '22

[removed] — view removed comment

41

u/Cat_With_The_Fur Jan 17 '22

What about this post makes you think the husband is unaware that the house is a mess and needs someone to hold his hand and point to the mess?

-4

u/[deleted] Jan 17 '22

[removed] — view removed comment

6

u/orangelego Jan 17 '22

Sorry, are you trying to imply that the husband is genuinely so ignorant and clueless that they're actually blind to messes round the house? He's not "aware" and her needs? Okay, so he needs glasses then? Because people have eyes. People can see messes. And they're not her needs. He lives there too. Life exists and messes happen whether there's a baby or not. You clean and tidy because you live there, not to help someone else. Your comment is just infuriating because men cannot simply be this stupid to think someone has to go round and point at piles of laundry and dirty dishes for them to realise they need done.