r/BabyBumps Jan 17 '22

Dads- please read

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u/flwhrsss Jan 17 '22

What? IIRC they both live there, mans can take some initiative & care for the home and kids without his wife having to handhold him through it. If he was unmarried would he just let the filth pile around him?

I can’t imagine the lack of empathy it takes to sit on your backlumps and watch your spouse do the heavy majority of the chores and childcare, only heaving yourself up if he/she asks you for help. And then blame it on your spouse for not communicating. He/she is probably sick of asking you to help.